how do you make sure guys respect you?

Question

k thanks guys...this one lad who is after me ive been telling him that he has to work hard for me and that he cant just have me cos im specal!! and if he does anytign wrong ill just forget bout him..the thing is guys normally ujust sem after one thing n i prefer relationships..imonly 16 after all

Answer 1

Martial arts lessons and use charcters like Max in Dark Angel (Jessica Alba), Buffy the vampire slayer etc as a role model...

Out do the guys at their own thing... ie faster motorbike, out surf them on bigger waves, pactice till you can do impressive snowbaord stunts.

Ie you can be sexy, dress hot, go with those you like and kiss them straight away...

But you are setting the rules in a away they don't dare break them...

Or if a guy was a jerk grab his nuts in a vice like grip and lift him... (see the pain hand hold below) all the time smiling
saying stuff like ' ohhhh thought you wanted feel me?'

Ie think biker bade snowboard surfer chick who can pole dance and does not need a bouncer to protect her who can have any guy she likes.

Learn how to get a guy in a hand lock (ie pain lock ) if he puts his hands uninvited... Make him whimper, aplogise and say he likes to shag sheep etc... In public infront of his mates... then when you feel he has learnt his lesson let him go... If he then moves aggressively... use those, martial arts to put him down...


However if you like the guy take his hand and put it on you saying you dont bite unless he wants you too... Ie excude confidence biker girl style...Or deep throat his drink bottle, lick it and leave him stunned.

This shows you are not fridgid but in control


Take up extreme sports like skate boading, skydiving etc and dont cry like a wuss if you just scratch a nail...


Of and forget the crap about not being forward and approaching guys... Only **** guys look down on girls who make the first move...

Anyone decent loves it. And shows you have confidence...And no way is it immoral... Morality is about not being a bully. It has naf all to do with sex unless your actions are mean, nasty and bully like


With the martial arts you should get flexible and stun the guys when you drop to the splits... but they know not to mess...

Think 'Cyote Ugly' movie girls.


The other thing is learn that guys are poor we things led by their hormones that girls can manipulate at will... In fact rent out the whole Dark Angel Series...1, 2 and 3.

If the guys know you understand them you can be one of the lads, and a top one and sexy and fun to be with.

Answer 2

For God's sake grow up. I'm sure you are special but why should he respect you when you obviously don't respect him as you are making him jump through hoops.

Men usually want sex as part of a relationship and there is nothing wrong in that, so don't make him feel bad. A real gentleman will obviously let you decide when you are ready and you should appreciate him for that. If you act like a little girl playing a game he's going to think that if he could just learn the rules he'll be able to get you into bed.

Just tell him you like him and want to spend time with him but you are just not ready for a sexual relationship yet. He may go elsewhere but if he really does want a sexual relationship why shouldn't he, it doesn't make him a jerk.

Answer 3

First of all respect yourself, second dont give in to easy if you are not dating then you should not let him kiss you are touch you, third when you do begin dating make sure that he opens the door for you you know be a gentlemen also dont kiss on the first date and when you do kiss the first time no french just a small peck. the faster you go the less he is concern about you the slower you go the more attention he will give you.

Answer 4

I take it that u r a grl.
Firstly, although it may sound foolish, BE DECENT. Don't be too exposive, etc. That does not mean that u should keep to medeival traditions; make a resolve of how far u r willing to go. Secondly, DON'T RUN AFTER GUYS. Such a grl is considered cheap and immoral. Of course, BE FRIENDLY TO EVERYONE, TRY NOT TO PICK UP QUARRELS, HELP OTHERS SINCERELY AS FAR AS U CAN. Trust me, these so-called quintissential stupidities work wonders in any soceity.

Answer 5

Make sure that you show respect for yourself first cause people could see things in you that you cant. And once you tell them to respect you they should. And dont be around people who always disrespect you cause they will run over you and that would make others do the same to you.

Answer 6

The best way is to always be polite and firm.Let them know that you have certain standards and that you expect them to respect the fact. This will soon rid you of any one who does not respect you as you don't want them in your life anyway. Hope this helps!!

Answer 7

By being true to who you are and respecting yourself first. It is so hard to say "no" in a society that promotes "yes." However, in order to earn respect you have to stick to your guns and do what you feel is right.

Answer 8

Start with yourself.
Self-respect and others will surely respect you.
If you aint doing wrong, and still guys are not respecting you, you kick those guys on the curb!
Everyone deserves respect.

Answer 9

Don't speak cheap words and don't show him that you are desperate for him.Keep a distance,guys want women who they think are not attainable.Speak meaningful things about life and the lots .Try to understand his problems and try to to give him advice accordingly.

Answer 10

If he says or does something that offends you, tell him. That way he knows you wont put up with crap, so he'd better not pull any. If he puts you on the backburner or does something to hurt you, communicate it to him. If he doesnt apologize, then dump him.