i talk to this girl all the time and she always is talking about our future, but i dont know if she likes me or is just kidding. i really like her and she knows that cause i told her. also she is always wanting to hang out and stuff... and when i tell her that maybe someday, we might change, and drift away from each other, she gets emotional and tells me not to think like that.
any help would be greatly appreciated
if she does like me what should i do about it!?
2006-06-11 07:53:49 · 16 answers · asked by Alan J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go out lol
2006-06-11 07:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's always wanting to hang out and stuff, you might want to reconsider. You'll get less and less time to hang out with your buddies and your friends might begin to resent you because they now get less time to chill with you. It's called autonomy and it's important in any relationship. Before I start dating ANY new woman I always tell her, "Look, there are some days where I'm going to want to hang out with my buddies, and you must be accepting of that. I'll be the same way towards you when you want to do something with your girlfriends." This sends a very mature message and signals trust in a relationship. If she's going to cling to you like a needy/desperate type don't bother getting started. You'll only be wasting your time. It does sound like she likes you a lot, but there are many signals to look for when you're with her. If she touches you a lot, flirts, makes heavy eye contact, and most importantly (THIS IS A HUGE SIGNAL) women will actually mimic your body language on an unconcious level. In other words, when you put your elbows on the table, so does she. When you lean back, or lean forwards, she will too. She won't even realize she's doing it and it's a very clear signal of interest because she is showing you that she's in sync with you. I've even been doing the whole online dating thing and have women change their typing structure to fit mine EXACTLY in emails. Look for the little things, then you'll really know. Enjoy dude.
2006-06-11 15:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by TonyDrummond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she likes you. I hope she is not getting too attached though. If you like her, then I would just take one step at a time and don't rush into anything. Time will tell the story. Good luck.
2006-06-11 14:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like she likes you.....Or she wouldnt keep talking with you. Why not actually spend some time together, in the form of a DATE.
2006-06-11 14:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It´s possible to try you, to Se how much you care about her,but the best you must let some mister about you and to not show all your feeling,just some!
2006-06-11 15:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by mandycryss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she knows you like her and if she acts like she likes you back then myabe she really does!!!! i dont think you should rush into the relationship i think you should get to know her and talk to her for a couple months then ask her out.
2006-06-11 14:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by hello411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can take her out 2 dinner and ask her or on the other hand u can ask her over the phone
2006-06-11 14:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it sounds like she likes you. She is probably waiting for you to ask her out. Good luck!
2006-06-11 14:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by rkroxmysox915 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you. i'm positive that's the exact thing i did to my boyfriend before we got together.i was always talking about our ''kids" and stuff like that. she likes you alot.
2006-06-11 14:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like she likes you. You should ask her out.
2006-06-11 14:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by hotmama3712 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably likes u ask her out and it depends on how old she is
2006-06-11 14:57:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋