I'm not even dating him and he i has left two messages and I haven't responded. I know I'm acting juvenile....Is it ok not to return the calls ????????
2006-06-11 07:50:58 · 38 answers · asked by Tropical 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes...he will get the hint sooner of later. if not just snd him a voice mail and tell him you are not intersted and to have a nice life. you dont owe him an explaination. hope it works out
2006-06-11 07:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by fun time gal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well there's two ways to go on this. You can just ignore him and hopefully he'll get the message. Or you can return the call and be as boring as possible. Talk about nothing but yourself for an hour and only talk about clothes and other girly things that he wouldn't be interested in. Then when he finally gets off the phone, call him back like two hours later and bore the crap out of him again. He'll run so fast you'll see flames shooting out of his ***.
2006-06-11 07:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by Guelph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not wanna talk to him of course it is ok for you not to respond his messages. You are not obligated to return everyone's feelings. To make him stop calling you just warn him about that But there are some kind of guys who can really insist on that. If he does so make him speak to one of your male friends or relatives.. Tell him that is your new boyfriend. If it still does not work then I am sorry but you will have to change your phone number.
2006-06-11 07:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not acting juvenile at all... he is coming on way to strong, i suggest either just keep doing what ur doing, or answer it and say hey buddy im not interested, quit calling.
2006-06-11 07:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by lilokiegurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly OK to not return his phone calls, but why don't you want him to call you? Is he a geek or something? If it continues and you really aren't interested, let him know. Say you're not interested in dating right now and it's nothing personal or something. Hope I helped!
2006-06-11 07:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You can call when you're sure he's at school or work and leave a message on his answering machine if you're not brave enough to talk to him in person or on the phone.
2006-06-11 07:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mycroft 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get him to stop is just explain to him that you do not wish him to call you. Its better than hiding from the phone and letting him not know how you feel.
2006-06-11 07:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw your phone away...or......tell him you are having his number traced and are going to prosecute him for stalking. Then hang up, go to your answering machine to voice recorded message on your cell, and have your brother record the following message..."this call is being traced for prosecution by the (name your local) sheriffs department".....he'll get the message next time he calls and hears the message. I've done it many times, it works like a charm.
2006-06-11 07:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm... I think that the best way is to play in open cards,tell him that you do not wish him to call you that often or leaving messages. Only if this does not work try with the answering-man trick,and if this does not work... change your number...
2006-06-11 07:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by kamqx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't treat him this way! Call him back and speak to him and tell him you don't really want him calling you. I personally dislike it when people ignore me like that. I prefer them to tell me plainly. Keep in mind also that messages don't always come through...
2006-06-11 07:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by Richard III 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋