He wants me to give up my virginity for him, i dont no cuz i wanted my first time to be special. all he ever duz is ask, wut do i do?
2006-06-11 07:36:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's a bastard, little boy, perv. DUMP him. Ur too young!
2006-06-11 08:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all it is too young for you to be in a relationship 15 years old...you must be focused on finishing your school and careers that are waiting for you. Opportunities of life are so huge for you and by being with the wrong person at a very young age would make your future dim.
I would suggest just to let the guys hang around and just choose who the best would be when the time comes that you already have enjoyed a teenage life. Life that is full of opportunities, that will be opening for you... it is not also good to be committed to someone at age 15... you will miss the goodness of life.... enjoy it while you are young you don;t need to be in a relationship with someone who only thinks of whatever is in between his legs... which of course if you give in would be start of your down fall because when girls as young as you have sex the think they have to hang to this person. they think they are loved but all these are not what it is and you don't need that emotional roller coaster at your age...just have fun , enjoy being a teenager there are lot to be done out there without having to deal with having sex....have fun my dear..
2006-06-11 08:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by pinky c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that you will always look back on your first sexual experience. You will NEVER forget it, unless you become old and senile. But, that's beside the point. Do it because it's best for you, not other people. There will other guys that will come around and will probably be more deserving. The majority of girls your age who lost their virginity say that they wish they would have waited. It's natural for him to want to have sex with you because he's a man. It's also natural for you, as a lady, to make him prove himself worthy. So do your job and make him prove himself worthy. If you have ANY doubt, don't do it. Again, he's got raging hormones and it's only natural for him to want to have sex with you. Just don't let him take advantage.
2006-06-11 07:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by TonyDrummond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 15. Way to young for the stress of having sex. If that is all he talks about, then that is all he wants. Sure he will tell you that he loves you, etc. but that is just a plea to get into your pants. All boys want to be the 'first' one. They get the bragging rights of being 'the one' who popped your cherry. At least that is the phrase that they used when I was 15. You're to special to have someone just use you & spread your name & number all of the boys bathroom at school.
2006-06-11 07:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by ~Sheila~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetie dont have sex with him. It's obvious he's only after sex since he keeps asking you. Make sure you save it for the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. Having sex is a serious, you become one with another. I know you probably dont want to hear this but your toooo young ok. Sharing your body with someone else is sacred...... he may try to say i love you, i want to be with you forever....... but he 's only lying if he doesnt want to wait for you. Let him know that if he truly care for you and respects your body that he needs to wait. I know this sounds crazy as well but it would be good to talk to an adult that you know you can tell this too and would be their for you. Remember your virginity is very sacred to you and to god. So dont just give it to anyone!!!
Do the right thing ok, there's no rush for sex.
2006-06-11 07:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex your only 15 i'm 51 and I don't plan to do that kind of stuff till i'm 20 you could ruin the rest of your life if you do that plus do you really want to have kids at that age. What would your parents do. Think about it. Nothing good comes out of having sex with him.
2006-06-11 07:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no.. and dump him.. It seems like it only wants you for one reason SEX... if you think your not ready ... dont do it for him.. If it really loved you he would wait till your ready or he wouldnt ask you at all... Your only 15 you have a lot of years left to find a speical guy.. GOOD luck..
2006-06-11 07:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by LostGiirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Let him find another girl who he can do that with. Remember this: it is guys' JOB to have sex with as many women as possible before we get married.
If you are not ready, then good for your for knowing that about yourself. Don't let yourself be pushed around, EVER. But also, don't prevent other people from seeking their happiness, either. So talk with your boyfriend, and tell him you're not ready and you're not giving it up, and if he wants to go find other girls to do that with, then he's welcome to do so.
Doing this - trust me - will help you to grow up super-confident and down to earth, which - trust me again - is totally irresistable to men.
2006-06-11 07:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by jackmack65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! I dont thnk hes the right guy for u if hes going on asking for stuff like this. And wait till ur 18 or something
2006-06-11 07:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by slickleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just be with u for sex only!
I dun think u r ready right now!
Let him go, maybe you will meet someone that will love you more than for sex.
You r 15 not 51... u still young. future more important than sex.
If he upset just bcoz u dun want do sex with him, that mean he is not good for u. Leave him!
2006-06-11 07:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by lazuardi.sepi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give in. If he keeps asking you after you tell him that you don't want to then you should break up with him. He isn't a good guy and he doesn't care about you if he thinks about what he wants and doesn't care what you want.
2006-06-11 07:43:03 · answer #11 · answered by rkroxmysox915 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋