i like this one guy and we flirt ALOT but i don't know how to tell him i like him?

Question

i liked this guy since he moved here and i liked him since two years ago with a on and off me liking him and at the end of this school year we REALLY started flirting but right before that he said he liked this other chick at my school but he seems ALOT more intrested in me and now shows like he dosn't even care about the other girl he said he liked a little bit....... so do i ask him out because we flirt alot or do i not (i hate rejection too *cry* lol)


p.s. he also asked me to come over one time.......when his parents wern't home (ahhhhhhh!) lol what do i do?

Answer 1

Wait until he asks you out. In the mean time try to intise him and play hard to get.

Answer 2

HI...WELL IF THERE IS A LOT OF FLIRTING GOING ON ANYWAY HE ALREADY KNOWS YOU WOULD GO OUT WITH HIM BUT PLAY IT SLOW OKAY...DON'T BE EASY, LEAVE ROOM FOR RESPECT AND KEEP THE FLIRTING GOING AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS...HE'S PROBABLY SCARED TO DEATH TO ASK YOU OUT OR MOVE TO THE NEXT LEVEL...FRIENDSHIP IS VERY IMPORTANT IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP AND THE FLIRTING IS NATURAL AND IF THE CHEMISTRY IS THERE HE WILL ASK YOU OUT BUT IF YOU GET TIRED OF WAITING SAY SOMETHING LIKE 'HEY, OK, ENOUGH WITH ALL THIS FLIRT TAG, LET'S GRAB A PIZZA OVER CONVO AND MAYBE A WALK IN THE PARK OR A MOVIE' BUT KEEP YOUR DISTANCE AND DON'T HAVE SEX ON THE FIRST DATE OKAY...HE'LL RESPECT YOU MORE BELIEVE ME..IF HE'S ANY KIND OF GENTLEMAN...THAT WILL HAPPEN IN TIME..YOU ARE YOUNG SO STOP THE CRYING IF THINGS DON'T WORK OUT...I'M SURE YOU WILL FIND A NICE GUY TO ACCEPT YOU FOR YOU

Answer 3

I would just bite the bullet and ask him. Guy's are weird, he could be flirting with you just to get into your pants. Especially if he already told you that he liked someone else and invited you over when no one else is home. Having sex with someone doesn't mean that they like you, or that anything more will come out of it. If you decide to do this, make sure you protect yourself (make him use a condom) you don't want to get a STD, or worse get pregnant just because he flirts with you.

Answer 4

Because of the flirting, I'm sure he knows that you like him. Don't ask him out if you hate rejection (so do I, so I don't ask anyone out). Just wait for him to ask you out. Definetly go to his house when his parents aren't home! That will make you two closer (don't have sex though) and maybe he'll ask you out.

Answer 5

ask him out thats fine. but dont go to his house just cuz he asked n his parents were out. date first, find out if u really like him first n then worry about if he likes u. dont go to his house cuz when guys say that, they just want 1 thing. he needs to know ur not that easy n he needs to respect u. btw remember if he really does like u, he'll introduce u to his parents. if he doesnt (introduce u to his parents) that means he's just not that into u cuz why wud he hide u?

Answer 6

it depends on what you want to do?

if u dont wanna look like a sl ut then dont go when his parents arent home.

you can do something like this.

if he says he is going to do this or buy clothes etc
say something like- your choice is so 5minutes ago.......if u really want any decent girl to like you , you really need my help.
etc etc

then its up to you to extend this thing to what you want

Answer 7

skank/jerk: first responder.
U don't say u like him. Ask him out. I'm surprised he hasn't, should've by now so I dunno if u should. Ur gonna get rejected sometime. I know, take my own advice. No thanks.

Answer 8

do ask him is he serious.....................................
if he is just go on........................
be happy .............. see u soon
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