ok this guyy that i really love, wants me to have sex with him, but if my mom would find out, then i would be killed. but i would take that risk, but i dont know what to do if i were to get pregante! im sooo confused, please help me.
2006-06-11 07:17:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 13 and hes 15
2006-06-11 07:26:53 · update #1
but age is just a number!!
2006-06-11 07:31:08 · update #2
You're not ready - your question reveals it. DON'T.
2006-06-11 07:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not something you should take lightly, there are so many risks involved pregnancy is just the tip of the ice burg. If this guy wants to have sex you both need to know each other well enough to speak about concerns you might have. Take the time to get educated, it could change the person you become.
2006-06-11 07:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Make sure your old enough.
2. Only have sex when your ready.
3. There are about 100 guys you MIGHT love in your life time maby less maby more But Doesnt mean youll have sex with them.If he LOVES You then he'll be considerate of how you feel,An not pressure you.If you do decide to go that step please take precautions to protect your self>Pregnancy is one of the so many reasons you have to protect your self.Dont for get Aids an other diseases sweethart. Besides your mom,isnt gonna be there to make your decisions of who you sleep with ,you just have to make sure your readdy an like i say always look out for your self an protect your self.
2006-06-11 07:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by smpaj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear this problem so many times. and it is sad. if you are under 18 you should wait your body is a priceless treasure that should not be given too freely. plenty of time for sex and it should not be a situation where something bad could happen. until you are ready and no problems can come from it I suggest you keep your treasure and wait for the right time. and don't worry you will know when that is. You do not need a guy to tell you when.
2006-06-11 07:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by Savage 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u are worried about getting pregnant and scared of your mom than u are too young and immature to have sex!! Talk to your mom about needing birth control and always use a condom. Im sure your a virgin, and u should think it through before having sex. He should respect u if you arent ready. If you told him u didnt want to have sex just yet and he said that was ok, then he does love u but if he starts ignoring your calls that u saved your virginity to a loser.
2006-06-11 07:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How young are you?
Are you guys married?
If you aren't married or engaged and probably are a teenage child why are you even asking this?
OF COURSE NOT!!!!!!!!!!!
Dont make yourself a teegage slut. Grow into a woman before you even begin thinking about sex.
Finish High School, go to college or work and meet a guy for the future. Then start discussing sex - family with him. If this is what he wants then plan it out and do it.
2006-06-11 07:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it because if you are confused then you are not ready. If you guys are really in love then he will understand why you don't want to do it. Don't do anything that you will regret. You sound pretty young so you should definitely wait until you are both old enough to fully understand all possible consequences of sex (baby, std, etc.).
Hope this helps
2006-06-11 07:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by nh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your Mom. Even if you don't listen to her listen to yourself. You know in your heart. Plus getting pregnent is a real possibility and you don't need that. Wait until its something Mom can deal with, like when your not living at home anymore.
Your question an hour ago... "what do i do when i know a guy likes me and i like him but he wont ask me out?? HELP ME!!?
Whats up with that? Stop playing games.
2006-06-11 07:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention your age but it really doesn't matter. If you have to ask if it's ok to have sex, then it's not. You'll know when the time is right and you won't need advise. Good luck.
2006-06-11 07:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by JANEL 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe sex can wait, if he really loves you. Don't rush in having sex, you might not like having it this early after all. If he loves you, tell 'em sex can wait. You know what's right, and I hope you make that right choice.
2006-06-11 07:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by kristian121989 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best birth control is not having sex. so even if you really love him you wouldn't have sex untill your married and then your mom can't stop you as well.
2006-06-11 07:23:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋