he loves me.. he tells me all the time but he still wants me to prove to him i love him and i really dont know how... im kinda lost...
2006-06-11 07:11:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THIS IS JUST MY OPINION HON OKAY....I DIDN'T GO INTO YOUR PROFILE SO I DON'T KNOW HOW OLD YOU ARE..IF THE SEX IS GOOD AND HE PLEASES YOU TOTALLY THEN THAT AREA IS GOOD BUT IF YOU FEEL HE IS TELLING YOU HE LOVES YOU JUST FOR SEX SLACK OFF A BIT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS...START SLOWLY WITH SOME EXCUSES ONCE IN A WHILE...IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU HE WOULDN'T EVEN ASK YOU TO PROVE IT....HAS HE HINTED AS TO HOW HE WANTS YOU TO PROVE IT?
2006-06-11 07:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by jayneellen57 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
By going to bed and having sex with him does not prove anything . Honestly, love cannot be proven by having sex.... Guys have a higher rate of sexual desire than women, they can have sex when they feel they have to have it and it does not mean that if a guy has sex with you he loves you... hey you are smarter than that... Even you yourself would know , you have given him yourself already had sex with him and yet he still wants you to prove something....there is nothing to prove if he really loves you, the mere fact that you are with him should mean a lot.. even without the sex part... guys are ego trippers, when they hit the sack with a girl they are proud they did that home run and now after having sex and sex they want to have babies to prove that girls love them... don't fall into that trap you will end up to be a single mom and shoulder all responsibilities by yourself.. Having a baby does not prove that you love him okay... There is nothing to prove when you truly and honestly love someone.....get married and live a life together before proving things that will not be beneficial to you....have a good one...
2006-06-11 14:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by pinky c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doest sound like a healthy relationship. you should not be having sex with a person just to prove to him that you love him. it should be something special between ppl that love each other whole heartedly sex or no sex. if you are lost as to how to prove your love to somebody you are not where you should be. love should make you happy n worry free. just because a person tells you that they love you doesnt mean that they are sincere or that it really is...those are the most overused words in the english launguage. i wish you well. i hope this does not take you down the same roads it took me.
i love you.
2006-06-11 14:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by mommaslosthermind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, having sex doesn't automatically mean that you love each other. Proving your love isn't a quest that you should wake up in the morning planning on how to conquer. Proof of love comes with respect, loyalty, romance, and compassion. There's not one physical thing that you can do to prove your love.
2006-06-11 14:19:02 · answer #4 · answered by strc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially we are attracted to the objects of sense gratification. In regards to human romantic relationship the partners are attracted to each other on the basis of many types of sense gratifications. The prospect of sensual fulfillment, sensual satisfaction, sensual gratification, now and in the future puts one's intelligence under a spell or bewilderment.
This is a challenge for human beings. Human beings have to try and bring their higher reasoning powers into control. I am explaining this since it is relevant to having started sxxual relations with someone in the first place.
Getting to the love issue, the key to love is selflessness. Selflessness is required for tolerance, patience, humility, and dedication. Selflessness is required in order to come to a better agreement in regards to anything that might mean something to either partner.
Hopefully, your partner is not over the line with drugs or criminal activity. If this person is reasonably normal, then perhaps you can salvage the relationship.
So prove your love by being as selfless as possible in regards to coming to an agreement about anything that might mean anything to either one of you.
2006-06-11 14:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by devotionalservice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS like u slept with him because u thought either he would love u because of it and it was your way of showing u loved him. Bad reason to sleep with someone. If u dont know how to prove it to him and u already slept with him because of that reason then u dont love him. He should accept the fact that u slept with him as u proving your love towards him.
2006-06-11 14:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to prove you love someone if you do then he already knows it. If you honestly love him and you know this is fact then he knows it by the way you look at him and talk to him. saying I love you does not mean he loves you. It sounds like to me he is setting you up to do something no one would normally do like do his friends or something sick. never tell him that you will do anything to prove your love because trust me he could ask you to do something you will not like and it will not satisfy him. bottom line love is felt not proven.
2006-06-11 14:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him, and that your word should be good enough for him. You needn't prove it.
Or if you must, you could take desperate measures and say "If YOU loved ME, you'd trust my word, and not need any proof." (I'm just worried that saying that might lead to a fight...)
2006-06-11 15:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Casimir Alexander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bye being attentive to his needs.BUT do NOT forget your own.Never give up what you want for someone else or you hate that part .And he might take it for granit.And make sure ya love ya self first (most important.)
2006-06-11 14:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by smpaj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him how he wants you to prove your love to him.
2006-06-11 14:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by *~Squeekimz~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋