how do i get a boyfriend?

Question

I really want a boyfriend, but im afraid of getting rejected, and im shy aroung guys. Any advice?

Answer 1

There are many lonely guys and gals too. But, they may not agree on everything.

Post profiles about yourself online so that people know more about you. And don't start a sxlly intimate relationship with anyone. Save it till after marriage if possible. And don't get married if there is any chance that you two disagree about anything.

Answer 2

What you have to do first is build up your self confidence. We all talk to ourselves in our head. What you need to do is say positive things like, "I am attractive" "I deserve a good guy" and continue to do so. Write down a list of all the things you have to offer a man, don't think of them in your head, physically write them down and read them to yourself. This positive thinking will help you rewire yourself into being more confident and it'll show on your face when meeting new people. Think of the reason why all of the really popular girls in your high school were always so talkative and had tons of boyfriends. They weren't shy, they were able to communicate and hold a conversation to get someone's interest, and most importantly, they believed in themselves. Now here's the funny thing about rejection, how do you think us guys feel? We're ALWAYS the ones who have to risk rejection. Hell, I have to risk it tomorrow night when I ask a girl I've been talking with out on a date. But you know what, I know she's going to say 'Yes' because I am a confident guy. I know I have a lot to offer and can communicate that to make myself seem more appealing. That's what you must do. Get out there and realize that there's a guy out there waiting for you to ask him out. If you get rejected, so what? You literally lose NOTHING. Dating is all a numbers game, you can't win it all and you will get rejected once in a while, but that's part of life.

I used to be shy so I'll help you in this area as well. Every time from now on when you're buying something from a grocery store to a gas station. Take the time to say "Hello, how are you?" and ask the clerk how they're doing. Always look them directly in the eye and make good eye contact. Eventually you will get over your fear of talking to strangers you don't know. I was once afraid to aproach women in stores, malls, bars, etc but what I did to get over it is I went to a mall and made eye contact and said hello to every single one of them no matter how pretty or ugly they were. If you do things like this enough you'll ask yourself, what was I so afraid of? That's all shyness is anyway, fear.

Answer 3

Yeah, I'm the same way. I can understand that it's tough when your shy. The only thing I can tell you is - don't be afraid. Just ask a guy out. If he turn you down, then so be it. Better having tried then not. If it makes it easier, maybe you should write a letter to him or give him a phone call?

Answer 4

then maybe you sould get off your *** and atart talking to guys and wen ur ready ask the guy you like out or just to hang

Answer 5

go on the street corner and when a car pulls up theres your boyfriend

Answer 6

Hi,
Just be yourself and your other half will find you, just don't jump into unknown water without test it
Good luck

Answer 7

you need boy friend only. why worry? ask somebody for friendship or make one of the answerer as your friend.o.k.

Answer 8

Just be yourself and dont worry there is someone for everyone. be true to yourself and nature will take its course.

Answer 9

ask the guy you like to be your boy friend it not hard

Answer 10

Just ask one!!