help! i can't talk to girls!?

Question

HELP!!! i cant talk to girls and there's only a week left of school! i really want to ask this girl out but i dont know how to approach her. This one time she sat right beside me and her friends were gone watching fifa. It was just the two of us but i didnt know how to talk to her. It was an awkward moment, and i was pissed because i thought i'd missed my chance. We get along fine when one of our friends is around who's a good conversation starter. I really like this girl since last year but i keep getting these nervous moments. can some guys and gals give me some advise on how to approach women?
PS: By the way, we're in highschool

Answer 1

well if you cant talk to them and well as i cant see them we should meet up and join forces

Answer 2

There's nothing to be afraid of "Imagine yourself being some hot Hunk from heaven and be confident about it". That should take off the butterflies in your tummy.Then just talk to her ask her if she's free this weekend or day w/e
and if she'd like to go out to the movies etc?

Damn she was waiting for you to approach her while she was sittin there all alone dont worry you still have a chance with her go get her Tiger Roar!

Answer 3

Pretend she's someone like a regular friend. I've heard practicing what you want to say in front of a mirror helps, and figuring out stuff you can say to get a conversation started. Questions, simple ones, always work for a limited time, and from there you can start talking

P.S. Not acting nervous or acknowleding you're nervous helps

Answer 4

have your friend start a conversation, then when you and the girl get talking have him leave, give him like a code signal or something. Have him say something like "Oh shoot, I really got to go!" and he'll just run off. Then you say "OH, me too! Hey, maybe we could continue this conversation friday night, over dinner? is 7:00 ok?" (or whatever time i just said 7 as an example). Then she'll say yes. if she says something like, "no i'm busy" then figure out a time between the two of you when u are both free. Try it,. see what happens.

Answer 5

Man dude you just need to act yourself around this girl. I used to be like that in high school sometimes when I was around this girl that I liked and wanted to go out with. But I soon realized that you don't get very far being shy. Girls like guys to take charge and be confident and in control. Just talk to her about anything. Make her laugh by telling a joke or something. Then ask her out. It's really alot easier than you think. Good luck.....

Answer 6

Dude talk to her. Just say some random things. If she gave you a sign that she likes you and she is just waiting to for you to approach her, DUDE you better approach her and say something!!!! Some girls like it when guyz approach to her first. It shows that you are not a wuss. If she response to you in rude way just leave her alone because she is not worth it. If she look at you in your eyes and seems very nervous when you approach her, dude she is a keeper. Good Luck and don't let her go cuz you'll regret it.

Answer 7

You are in a stage of your life where you think that she is probably the only one for you. Trust me when I say thats not the truth. I recommend you just ask her,you have nothing to lose,she'll either say yes or no. If she says no,move on,and who knows you might find someone over summer vacation. My experience has been,you always find someone when least expected. Go for it,there is nothing worse than sitting there and kicking yourself for not trying. Just be yourself and speak whats on your mind, dont go overboard by telling her that your in love with her or something like that,just ask her for a date and let things progress naturally.

Answer 8

you've got my problem. i also find it hard to talk to girls one on one. I think the best thing to do may be to talk to her online to take off some of the pressure, and when you are comfortable enough talk to her in person. Or maybe since you can talk to her when your friends are around, try to talk to her more that way and get to know her a little better. The most important thing i think is that you must be yourself. Don't be ashamed of who you are. If you show that you are she'll see that you are insecure. Well i hope this helps. good luck.

ps: make her laugh!

Answer 9

find something to compliment her on...whether her shirt, the way her hair looks for the day or whatever, let her know she looks pretty. ask her what her fav food is and maybe suggest going to a place where they serve that particular food item with you.
dont let a chance get away from you and hating yourself from not ever knowing what wouldve happened if you had said something! just be brave and if even if she says no, you at least had the courage to say something.

Answer 10

dont worry... go ahead and propose someone.................... First a hello and then wish her. Talk about something which you know a lot(eg. FIFA World Cup)...and you'll get going... next time do the same and you two will become good friends. I'm turning 14 on the 25th June. Pl wish me on that day.....

Answer 11

Just relax !! your making it to big of deal! Me and my friends dont care about wheather a guy talks or not. Just say something about your class like - are you glad schools almost out? and then after she answers ask her- well would you like to go to a movie with me on friday? and regardles of what she says be proud for overcoming your talklessnes. Oh yeah and dont be afriad to ask her when her friends are there they wont care!