i will always be in love with a russian boy...?

Question

last summer i went on a missions trip to Kazakhstan (which is halfawy around the world). i met a guy there, who is 20. we hit it off, and he was very romantic. he didn't speak very good english, but it didn't matter. after i went back home to illinois, we kept in touch for awhile and continued our relationship, but after awhile we just stopped talking because we were both busy and we had a hard time understanding eah other and the distance was very hard on us. everyone always though that we would always be together, and it was rumored that he was going to ask me to marry him.
i love him so much, but things are so hard because i can't see him and we always get into fights.
how do i tell him that things just aren't going to work out and that i can't talk to him anymore because it hurts too much? and how do i get over him?

and everytime i think about him and think about stopping communication, i think of the song "just like heaven" by katie melua, and i try to convince myself that things will work out, even tho i kno they won't.

Answer 1

well tell him on the phone or something and have a pile of ice cream by you. it get better soon.

Answer 2

If he doesn't contact you anyway then you can permanently stop talking to him otherwise you should just tell him that you love him but you guys can't be together because you are constantly busy. I f he doesn't go to your school then you could tell everyone that you broke up with him and still stay in touch without all your school friends bothering you about it!

Answer 3

just tell him long distance relation ships just dont work for u. and for u to get over him, u should pick up a hobby, like sketch something to keep ur mind on the lines and and out of his.

Answer 4

go on with life, life wont stop to wait for you.