Why do other people make you feel like complete crap for who you are? Why do people accuse you for doing something they dont like when they do the same da*n thing? Why is it that when everything is going perfect, someone has to jump in and screw everything up and you lose grasp of what you had and now you have nothing? Why is it so easy to hurt others? Why do people do this crap to me?!
2006-06-11 06:50:22 · 8 answers · asked by urbestluver 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because thats what people are like, and i have felt the same way u do. Try not to let it get u down and i know its hard but think 2 yoursself y do they do it? R they jealous of u? If its a guy thats hurt u, then maybe its cuz he cares and knows hes not good 4 u and that one day hell hurt u, better now than later before it really hurts. Good luck hunny
2006-06-11 06:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Angelchic, I will give you some advice that I learned too late in my life but which I still use. If someone does the 'dirt' on you by whatever means, determine to make yourself believe that that person no longer exists. You do not speak to them, you do not answer them, you do absolutely nothing to them or for them. They no longer exist............. I can tell you, it works wonderfully well. Depending on what the 'offense' was determines the length of time I keep it up. My brother once called our mother some very rude words and he no longer existed for 22 years. True, I swear............ There are two current people 'serving' their time and believe me, the satisfaction it gives me to totally ignore them when they even speak to me. They no longer exist.......
2006-06-11 14:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew.. cause it happened to me, too, very often!
You need to strengthen your self confidence, smile in their faces... and know inside yourself that you don't give a ... on what they say or think - cause you have your own way and you will go forward, no matter what!
Try to believe in yourself. The whole nasty feeling caused by others will eventually go away.
Don't let them hurt you any more. Tell them clearly that you don't like it. If they don't stop... ignore them. Who needs energy thieves?
Wish you strength!
2006-06-11 14:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by Hibernating Ladybird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they feel like complete crap and need to put down others (you) to make themselves feel better.
Some people are easier targets than others...just brush it off..I know its difficult, but don't let it bother you.
2006-06-11 13:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres some people that do that to make people think that their a piece of crap but other people do it when they know they arent going to get what you got or have
2006-06-11 13:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by eman-17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm tryin to figure out the same exact question girl.. good luck with the answers..
2006-06-11 13:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by angelchic1706 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its how life works one minuet you are feeling better than you ever have then life pulls you down and kicks u in the stomach. i know it sucks but thats life.
2006-06-11 13:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by jmon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult to understand your question than answering.
2006-06-11 13:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by --> ( Charles ) <-- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋