Hi. i'm a guy 26yrs old. seems i will never have a girlfriend, but let's say i do one day. I have a penis/testicle/scrotum problem, and it hurts with any little motion when erect, or my tes ticle also hurts easily. So if i meet a girl, over time she falls in love, then starts f eeling the passion, i feel too.. then aftter a whilethe natural step for us would be to have sex and have a baby etc.. ok, but sadly i'll have to ruin that moment and say... "Sorry but i can't i have a problem..etc. etc" That sounds really sad for the girl to have to listen to that suddenl after the relationship has matured. And the problem also is, you can't just start talking to her about sexual problems the first time we meet. I'm just confused.....how can i make it so i don't break her heart?
2006-06-11 06:28:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't tell her right up front, the relationship wont mature, only a lie will, sad to say it, she's not going to be the one with the broken heart, now how do you just come out and drop a bomb on a relationship that may indeed kill it ? that's the real question, sometimes people will really surprise you, you may indeed find out she's more understanding then you could have ever imagined, but you wont know that until you tell her, If she's good for you she will stick around
2006-06-11 06:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by supervfive 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry I dont know what to tell you to tell her. I do have a cousin that is happily married to a guy who is in a wheelchair, he has no control of his legs and other areas. I think that once the relationship gets that far I think she will understand the situation. If she really cares for you she will understand and you will overcome it. If a baby is what shes/you guys want in the future there are other ways to go about it. Sorry Im not much help I wish you luck, I hope that who ever you pick to be with will understand.
2006-06-11 13:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can satisfy her by tongue, fingering etc but at the end u need to have intercourse..........& after mature relation there is a need of baby, why dn't u consult a doctor... he'll surely help u out . my frend every problem has a solution hence its called a problem
2006-06-11 13:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders you are not ready to take on kids at your young age so use a condom and use a the pull out move and you want have to break her heart unless you are very sick you need to tell her and just be friends be honest and kind always to yourself and to others you care about
2006-06-11 13:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying there is no way for you to get treatment for this?
well like the first lady said there are other ways you can pleasure your woman..but i would suggest you tell her up front...do not wait too long...because deception will kill your realtionship
2006-06-11 13:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well remember that women fall in love with you for who you are not with your dick, be straight up with her and if she really loves you, she will adapt and learn that it isn't your fault you guys can't have sex. You can do other things, just not sex! Good luck!
2006-06-11 13:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be something that can be done medically. Go check with your doctor and get your equipment fixed. =0)
2006-06-11 13:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to someone that is close to you that there is something she needs to know that you have a medical condition that makes sexual intercourse impossible.
2006-06-11 13:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by captures_sunsets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, but you can please her in other ways besides your dick.
Your fingers, tongue, and mouth for instance.
2006-06-11 13:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋