Last night I went on a date with this guy I have been talking to online for weeks. We hang out, and went over his friend house and we made out for some hours, and he later drop me off at my house, and told me he would call me later on, so will he call me? He have this really dry humor, he is a wonderful guy, but he hardly laught or smile.
And no, we did not have sex, although we did kinda touch each others private area.
2006-06-11 05:01:54 · 21 answers · asked by keveneeds 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
God you people are so small minded! You think the guy doesn't know that he's gay?? What difference does it make if he's a guy or a girl, he's asking for advice!
Keven, it's good that you didn't have sex with the guy on the first night. That way if he doesn't call you, then at least you have your dignity in tact. But I would say give it a little time, if he says he's going to call, give him at least 3 days after the date to call. If he doesn't call that means he wasn't that interested and even though you made out, that he would have taken the sex if you had given it up but then he still wouldn't have called. Whatever you do, do NOT call him. If 3 days pass and you just can't help yourself, then go ahead and call and just say "Hi". Don't go into "why didn't you call me" guys hate this! And it makes you appear needy. Just chill for a bit, going on with your life, he'll probably call when you aren't thinking about him at all. And if he doesn't, what did you really lose? Nothing, there are other fish in the sea. Please know this is the exact same advice I have given to women who ask the same question. I don't care that you are gay.
Good luck!
2006-06-11 05:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're moving kind of fast for a second date if you are 'touching' each other. I mean maybe he thinks you're easy and has lost respect for you.
I think you should wait it out, don't call him, let him call you.
You should read that book "Rules" I know it's silly and old but men do love a good chase, so give him one.
None of us can tell you if he's going to call you....I mean no one here is honestly able to predict the future so all I can do is give you advice hon.
Good Luck!
2006-06-11 05:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a guy also arent you? Yes, you will call him. Do it now.
Please award the Best Answer points to me right now because you cannot argue the logic of this response and you stand in awe of the tremendous empathy and intelligence of this responder. Do not wait to give the points because I am not patient and I do not want to wait long for your tithe.
2006-06-11 05:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to moose lover. you can make out and not have sex. she cant because she is a skanky. she only has one speed, EASY! haha thats so mean but funny.
as for your problem gay or not gay i could care less. why not just give him some time to sort things over and for you to sort things over. if there is a click he will call if not youll still talk to him online. maybe you will become good friends maybe youll become butt buddies. the only thing you need now is patience.
and give me the ten points because my answer has humor and the correct answer.
2006-06-11 05:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by zack0404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u went way to fast. come on why didn't u go out or something and get to know eachother in person. way to fast. he might call though for the rest of the package! sorry but, that is probally what he is thinking!
2006-06-11 05:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U never know just because he has a dry sense of humor does not mean he wont call.
GOD bless you.
2006-06-11 05:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jetta C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you make out and not have sex? Silly little boy ask a stupid question, and you'll get some really stupid answers.0_o
2006-06-11 05:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by Moose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a true admirer of yours, he will definitely ask for the 2nd date otherwise you should try for a date in your real life not through internet.
2006-06-11 05:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by serial kisser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i have no clue. i am not gay
being a good dating teacher, for the first time i have no cluue on this feild report.
2006-06-11 05:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a CLUE about how GAY people think!
But from what you've said... I think odds are good that he had a good time too!
2006-06-11 05:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋