I really supported this man and really thought he cared for me, we'd talked about growing old together, only to find out that he even brought a woman for sex to my house, he says it was nothing but not, he's carried on a parrallel relationship with a younger woman and it goes on and on all the time using no protection.
2006-06-11 04:07:34 · 21 answers · asked by adoralives 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it seems you have some decisions to make. Either you are ok with it, or you are not. So you could leave him, or you could stay with him. If you choose to stay you are letting him know that you are in agreement with him seeing other women, so you should not feel that by sticking with it you can change him. If you are not going to be ok with it, then end the relationship and get on with your life.
2006-06-11 04:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is really sad. It seems guys that cheat are sooo good at fooling us. We give them everything and think that we have a "good "relationship. He will not change because he does not value love or women. They are more like a ego boost to him to make him feel good about himself. There is no way one women can satisfy him because he wants all different types. this is not your fault and you are way too good for him. Ia m sure the women he is messing with know he is taken and that is why they get off by trying to mess with him. Walk awa y now before he cheats with the wrong one and brings you something you will home you can;t get rid of..good luck
2006-06-11 11:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is NO reason why you have to put up with his behavior. I think you should find another man or just be single for a while to find out who you are. Because if you are doubting whether to stay with him or not then you are doubting how much you are worth. Trust me, you are worth more then the crap he is putting you through. Also, if he really loved you then he wouldn't do this to you.
2006-06-11 11:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by Robyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only is he a cheater, but he is compromising your health by having unprotected sex with other women. Kick the bum to the curb and find someone else who will care and respect you.
2006-06-11 11:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by tim b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you want more of the same, dump him and move on. It will be hard at first, but he does not respect you. you could end up with herpes or some other std. get away from him.
he will deny or make it seem like it was somehow your fault,
Make a plan. leave!!! soon. start a better life with someone who respects you.
2006-06-11 11:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by wilsonsdad2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you love someone, it is easy to forgive them and continue in the relationship, this happens all the time. BUT, in this day and age of AIDS your first thought should be for yourself, your well being, your peace of mind and your health, so there is no alternative buy to let this one go.
2006-06-11 11:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer....
Dump him. Once a cheater, always a cheater. If you let him stay, he'll keep cheating, and you'll keep making excuses for him. You can do so much better.
2006-06-11 11:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this man keeps cheting .get out and yes it is hard but you know its the right thing to do .love situations usually is.but hes not gonna stop doing what hes doing and i think you know that .so get out now before it gets worse.or you get something that takes your life .do you think this man is worth dieing for .i dont think so no cheater is worth life its self .lifes to short .get out and find someone to grow old with,thats worth it.
2006-06-11 11:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young lady, You are not a piece of meat. You are a human being
with feelings. That makes you very important. Leave him!!!!!!!
You are young and will find another man, one who will be true!!!!
2006-06-11 11:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with multiple men. You two are obviously not marriage material, so you should concentrate on non-monogamous relationships.
2006-06-11 11:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋