Ok, my mom is basically the money maker in the family. I look up to my mom and she works day and night for me and my sisters. My dad, however, is another story! I have no respect for him...he works, but not as much as my mom. Whenever we want to go visit my grandma, my dad gets into a huge fight with my mom and ends up ruining our whole weekend. It's not me that I'm worried about, but it's my mom! I think she should be entitiled to a fun weekend after a long week of work. I am really sick of my dad and am considering saying all of this to his face! What do you think?
2006-06-11 03:02:54 · 11 answers · asked by Sammy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm sixteen by the way and I'm a girl, not a guy
2006-06-11 03:12:36 · update #1
yes you should go and tell him this but please don't be harsh with him after all hes your dad.Tell him that he shouldn't spoil your weekends atleast.And why don't you ask your mom to talk to him about this.
2006-06-11 03:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by PrincEss 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, most..most to all...men, never grow up. If we knew what went on behind closed doors, I think most of us would be very surprised. This situation is a common theme. Men who don't tenderly love their wives, manipulate them to their own advantage...dominating the house and messing up all kinds of opportunities for the rest of their house. Happens all the time, 24/7. I guess what I'm saying is, most males will put themselves first, and not their mates. With that said...
Tough to advise you on this. I say, pray to the Lord on it for a few days. Then do what you feel! And let the chips fall where they may. After you pray, you can trust God that no matter what happens, you did give God entrance by seeking Him.
2006-06-11 10:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know what you problem is with your father. Is it because he earns less or is it because he always cause trouble and fight with your mum. :( I'm sorry to hear this. But, I think you might wanna try to talk your mother first, (hey, don't tell her about the "I wanna say it to his face" part..you might be sorry later on if you do that). Ask her about your father and discuss your feeling and thoughts about him with her. Then, after a while if you still want to tell him what your thoughts of him, I'd say only you know better whether you should do it or not. With, explosive father, wOW whatever can happen!
2006-06-11 11:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam sorry so sorry to hear story like this.
Your mon sounds lke a wonderful woman.
Your Dad well ?? you hav'nt really explained why you have no respect for him ?
Is it because he earns less than mum ?
Or is it for some other reason ?
maybe take a good look before you deside .
Ask yourself of your own age.
Yes I know the answer.
Shut up foollllll>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
You don' tknow wht your talking about .........
Sorry but I do
Mum's Dad's work, Yep they work....
2006 is hard for any body .
Just try it yourself
A family
A Morgage
A Car
A Dinner
A Bath
A bed
A lovely Daugher.......
PLEASE
Don't say it to your dad....
I'am sure, but please correct me if I'am wrong He LOVES YOU and is trying his best ....................
Please contact me if I can help you or talk you out of what could be one of the biggest mistakes of your life
2006-06-11 10:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by jay k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mouth shut. This is between your parents and you should never interject your opinions in this situation. Now if your dad was smacking around your mom, then I would say to defend her.
Maybe it would be better if your mom goes without him from now on since he really don't want to be there.
2006-06-11 10:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by mizflame98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Son, only you know your dad enough to take that chance. But it sounds unlikely that you have a good enough relationship to do that. Perhaps you have another adult male you can talk to. I wish I was closer, then I would be glad to help. You do not mention you age, but perhaps you could have a heart to heart with your dad, think about it.
2006-06-11 10:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
i dont knw abt your age and other things, if ytou are sure there is no genuine reason behind their quarrels, and if u think you are matured person to talk against your father, then may be you should talk to him, it should never be a fightm but it should make him realise how much his deeds hurts others.....this was just a suggestion and more than asking others, you know uer family better, itz better if u make a decision uerself...
2006-06-11 10:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends on your relationship wid your dad...if he's understanding and not short tempered tell him(nicely but effectively) but if he is.....then waut a while.....about your mom's hard work n stuff....try co-ordinating some fun activity on the weekend which suits both u, your dad and your mom............or try calling your granparents and asking thm to personally and politely inviting your dad to their house........
2006-06-11 10:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by @ll star27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get your own life and stop trying to play counselor
to your parents. It's your mother's husband, not yours. Get involved with your life and leave theirs alone.
2006-06-11 10:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by QuestOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it dude
wisdom comes out of the mouth of babes
2006-06-11 10:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by longhunter17692002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋