Umm...I only fantazise aloT bout gurls, but a little about boiz. I think gurls r gd 4 sex and for love too...But I seem to think about boiz in a more romantic and loving way. It seems like gurls attract me more than boys, sexually and sometimes in love, but boiys only attract me by their sweetness, not body nor nothing... I seem to turn down guyz too much, but open wit gurls, but STILL like guys....So, AM I BISEXUAL? OR LESBIAN?
2006-06-11 02:57:55 · 24 answers · asked by xXx H xXx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Btw, i'm 14
2006-06-11 02:58:33 · update #1
At your age I believe your are confused, if not you would not be asking this question. I believe you should sit down and talk with your Mother or another female in your family and explain your feelings. If you do not find the answer there maybe a youth counselor could help you.
2006-06-11 03:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by solo cup 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
14 is a bit young I think to figure out if you're bi, lesbian, or straight. Give yourself some time to work this out. Talk to a guidance counselor at your school or a therapist to help you work through this. 14 is a rough age. Be gentle to yourself, and as another poster said; let the chips fall where they will. You have your whole life ahead of you!
2006-06-11 10:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by Mary T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anything your bi. But you could also just be curious about the same sex more right now. Seeing as you are 14, you may probably be going through a phase. Only time will tell. You're young, you're discovering who you are, it's okay to be attracted to girls and guys.
2006-06-11 10:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're bisexual, you're attracted to both men and women. Your attraction for women seems like it's more like a right here, right now kind of thing. While with males it would be more on a long term basis. Either way have fun and live your life, you only get 1 life.
2006-06-11 10:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur l*sbo. if u like gurls and would go out with them but r only interestd in boys 4 there attitudes then u would just b there friends. ask ur self: if a guy and a gurl came up 2 u, and they both had the same characteristics, and asked u out, whos invatation would u accept. and theres ur answer.
2006-06-11 11:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your just an exhibitionist looking for cheap thrills by getting answers to a sleazy question. Here's a test...
Go up to some girl you know and ask if you can go down on her. If she goes for it, and you enjoy it, then you've answered half the question. Then, do the same with a guy.
Your gut reaction will be your answer.
2006-06-11 10:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by Methuselah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14, you're just a young girl who hasn't fully developed yet. Don't try to make it all more than it is. Be patient. It isn't time for you to be sexually active anyway.
2006-06-11 10:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is such a thing as bisexual i think you are one way or the other the direction you take is up to you but after reading your question i think you are more in to girls . good luck
2006-06-11 10:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by silver01222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can say this without getting in trouble...
You are gay.
With that said, you're still young, I've spoke to older girls, and hormones hit them rather fast.
One day you may be like, wow, muscles.
2006-06-11 10:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by asu_mikey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a teenager. Try not to commit to anything or anyone until your hormones settle down a bit...
2006-06-11 10:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by wuxxler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋