im in love with 2 men. 1 is my ex-boyfriend and the other is someone that could be my soulmate (if that still exists) but he is in a situation (relationship with kids). my ex-boyfriend called me telling me i need to make a decision or he's gone. do i stay with my ex or wait for this other guy to solve his problem?
2006-06-11 02:57:47 · 15 answers · asked by southerncmfrt1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget both of em and start anew. I am sure that you'll find your prince charming at a turn at the end of the road.
All the best!
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2006-06-11 03:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by Starreply 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
first of all how can you tell that the second guy is your soulmate and not the 1st guy?? that could be difficult you know. you better know who you love the most i think its the most important thing you should do. but if you don't love your currnt boyfriend anymore just break up with him. don't leave him hanging and waiting for your decision. aren't you ashame that you are taking away his freedom and the chance to be happy with others.. think bout it.
2006-06-11 03:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by Xxx☆pjay☆xxX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your "soulmate" is in a relationship, you have no right to interfere with that. If you love your boyfriend, stay with him.
But if I were him, I would wonder about staying with you, since you obviously are not committed to the relationship.
2006-06-11 03:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by wuxxler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose one and be happy with your choice. Give it some thought, think about all the pros and cons to each relationship and make a decision. Easier said than done I am sure. Good luck!
2006-06-11 03:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with X-BF. You will have many soul mates in your life. There is not just one. Getting with someone with kids when you don't have any is v. hard. These kids are #1 with the dad and you will always be last on his list. Get it Last on the List - it is not good.
2006-06-11 03:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by pms247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not "under any circumstance" stand in his way of leaving. He is pressuring you into making a decision which he expects - will reassure him that he ahs not lost touch with reality.
Do what your heart tells you, think of your future - weigh up the pros & cons...
2006-06-11 03:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Wings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar kinda different situation goin on too. My soul mate is mad at me and i dunno what to do. I am tryin to talk to him and stuff. He is haveing kids in December with his ex and he knows I like him. Sometime later or earlier this week he calls me a stalker, which makes no sense to me. He is takeing it out on me that him and his ex broke up...she broke up with him. I think the reasone why he said some unture things about me is because he wants to make some new friends, have people i don't kno and he hardly knos talk their sh** about me, and to gain back his ex. I can see why she broke up wit him. He told me that he likes talkin to me cuz I am "cool" well w/o the quotes. But it makes no sense. i emaild him somethin harsh tellin him to grow up and to get over himself. he is 27 and he acts like a child who is about 5. Its pretty sad.
2006-06-11 03:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the married man; he isn't going to leave his wife for you.
And, forget about your ex.
Just becuase you once went with him, is there any reason things will change?
After being married for 29 yrs, I really think it's time to move on. Forget about married men; stop fooling around with them. Chances are, you will only be hurt more.
SMILE, when you meet new people. It shows you like yourself, and others will like you, too. There is someone just for you, and please don't stop looking! I do wish you the best.
2006-06-11 03:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by fredg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try to eat your cake and have it. Sort out your emotions and follow your heart.
Theres obviously more to your situation than the 5 line question.
2006-06-11 03:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by cyberpaul007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex-boy is a history u still love him? concentrate on the other one is he married? if yes leave them both don waste time playing the guessing game. there is better more out there.good luck
2006-06-11 03:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by mamil gold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋