i need sumones elses pt of view on things..yea i'm under da age of 18..he's over da age of 18..but we both lyk each other..even though we can't c each other rite now cuz he's stationed real far rite now..he still cares about me. we met lass summer. he's a real sweet guy..so yea..
2006-06-11 01:52:15 · 8 answers · asked by BeBa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it took me a while to read ur weird english,anyways ,why not if he is only 5 years older thats not a big deal..u dont have to be the same age to like him.good luck.
2006-06-11 01:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by sasa 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It's not bad so long as you know what it is that you like about him. Being confused, or blinded by appearances would make it bad. But, with there being a distance between you right now, and you're still very aware of your feelings for him, then I would say that the 5 yr difference is meaningless. Legally, the sexual aspects of the relationship may be on hold, so as to safeguard him, but the time shared, and the familiarity gained during the time you are waiting, would solidify and benefit the bonds that brought you together in the first place. That's a long winded way of saying it will give you a chance to make sure it's more than sexual attraction. So no, it's not bad... GOOD LUCK!!
2006-06-11 10:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by nonya_askme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not at all. I'm engaged to a man 28 years older than me and we're happy, in love and everything is fantastic. I have a better relationship with him than with someone my own age! You'll get a lot of people telling you it's not right, but who cares. If you're happy and he's happy, everyone else can forget it. If they were in your situation they'd be doing the same exact thing. Good luck and have fun! :)
2006-06-11 09:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Kristen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your ages and the age of consent laws in your state or country these law do not prevent the two of you from likeing each other but do prevent the liking from going into the sexual part of a relationship so I would advise you to check the age of consent laws in your particular area before allowing this to get too serious.
2006-06-11 09:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by djmantx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the time apart to search yourself for the true feelingsthat you really have. Meet other people your age and see if you still feel the same way.
2006-06-11 09:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by RF Ace Face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's alright.....my man is 8 years older....
2006-06-11 09:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by xqueenyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like someone right
2006-06-11 08:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not... it is perfectly normal
2006-06-11 08:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by Shack_65 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋