my ex girlfriend has sent me texts that subltly hint that she still wants me.. i have a gf at the moment and the ex know that but still... what should i do...?
2006-06-11 01:01:53 · 16 answers · asked by nine_finger_jimmy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
clearly there is only one appropriate course of action - set up a menage a trois.
2006-06-11 01:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by littleantietamcreek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is stupid!!!
I dont know what ur EX were thingking but she is evil while she knows ur in relationship n still texting u that she want u back. But if u go back to ur EX n dump ur gf at the moment u have, u just hurting her for the reason that all these time u were still in love with ur EX.
The answer is only u can decide. Choose the one that u in love at the moment, and explain clearly with the one that ur not into. which i hope ur will not back to ur EX n tell her that u are in relationship n dont want to be bother by that.
good luck!
2006-06-11 01:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by dirty_a_ngel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel? Who do you want to be with? The ball is in your court here, so figure it out and decide on the next step. If its the current girl you want to be with and she finds out you are entertaining flirty messages from an ex, gosh, what an explosion you are facing! She'll get pissed off that she is not enough to have you on the straight and narrow. And you will get upset if you had wanted her to stay. On the other hand, if its the ex you want, go for it, and BE A MAN ABOUT IT and tell the poor soul whose time you'd be wasting that you want to backtrack. Ahem, why is she an ex, to start with???
2006-06-11 01:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Matrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your girlfriend for now and see what happens. It doesn't complicate matters, Besides, you must consider that:
a) You could be reading too much into the hints
b) She can't stand seeing you with someone else and wants to mess things up.
c) She doesn't have someone else and needs companionship and thinks since you're there....
If the ex is sincere, she will show it. THEN comes the tough part. Deciding who you really want to spend the rest of your life with...
2006-06-11 01:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by Studier Alpha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be back with her or stay with your current girlfriend?
If you want to stay with your current girlfriend then you need to let the ex know in no uncertain terms to leave you alone.
If you want to be with the ex you need to do the current girlfriend a favor by cutting her loose so she can find someone who really wants to be with her and finish whatever business you have with the ex.
2006-06-11 01:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing with you because she may not be happy at the moment with her situation. Perhaps she hasn't found someone yet? At any rate you should bar her phone number before she causes a problem with your current girlfriend. Move forward and never backwards! ;-)
2006-06-11 01:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by UN1C0RN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex doesn't want you but at the same time can't stand to see you with someone else. Make a clean break... tell her to leave you alone
2006-06-11 01:23:07 · answer #7 · answered by angelpockets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on who broke it off..u didn say...or wether u stil have feeling s 4 her ..if she doesnt have a bf of her own then maybe she jus wants u back coz shes lonely or jealous..or truely regrets what happened..i kno i havent answered it properly but u have 2 think bout these things & let me kno!
2006-06-11 01:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by jd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choice is always yours. Whom do you want to be with Ex or Present. Chose the one whom u find yourself to be more comfortable with.
2006-06-11 01:04:49 · answer #9 · answered by strange_raga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text back see whats up maybe you are reading into it to much.
2006-06-11 01:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋