I've been dating a few girls lately, nothing serious has happened, I was wondering is it wrong to go out on multiple dates...i dunno it feels like cheating, but Im not getting into anything serious, im just interested in finding the right gal first, then ill stop the 'multiple date' thing and concentrate on her...
2006-06-10 23:58:42 · 28 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you are open and honest to the women you are dating and if it should come up that they ask if you are seeing others - you should say yes! and as long as you are not leading them on to think that they are special to you making them think that you are exclusively dating - then you are not cheating.
You are merely checking out what is out there - ain't nuttin' wrong with that - that is what dating is all about.
2006-06-11 00:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Definately it's cheating or do u have other defination in ur multiple dating dictionary 4 the word cheating. Did u told the gals u been dated that ur not willing 2 involved in serious relationship until u find a rite gal or they voluntary dated with u 4 fun?
However , sure u will realized in future that it's cheating , when u find a rite gal & u love her so much but later u got 2 know that she also had been dating with multiple mens. U better change ur name 2 PLAYBOY bez it's really suitable 4 u.
2006-06-11 07:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by Dolly_06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you havn't agreed to be exclusive with a person then you are free to date around. It is wrong to be engaging in sexual interaction though with multiple women when they are all in the dark. Well at least if you are hoping to find the love of your life. But don't try to hide the fact that you take other women out. If the girl really likes you she will very much NOT like the idea of you with other women and will assert her desire for a serious committment.
2006-06-11 07:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by The Oregon Kid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't made commitments to these young ladies, then I assume it is okay to go on multiple dates. I would even venture to say it is healthy to do so. It sounds like you are young, and single..and trying to figure out what you like in women. It is good to take this time for exploration. If you feel special towards one woman in particular..it might be nice to curtail the dating with the others to discover what might come of that. But..if nothing is serious thus far..then I say go with it.
2006-06-11 07:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Toolooroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's completely normal, man. If there's no relationships set up and you're just dating, then you're just dating. Don't listen to people saying you're a player or you're doing anything wrong. If there's no commitments and these are people you've just been on a few dates with, then roll with it. When you find the right person, you've already said you'll focus on her. So that's cool. You're on top of things. Don't second guess yourself too much. ;)
2006-06-11 07:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by JStrat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have not slept with them or made a commitment no but let me ask you this are they all aware that you a dating multiple women if thre answer is no and you feel you would feel uncomfortable telling them then yes in a way you are being deceptive....not good if you eventually like one of them and they find out...your relationship would already be on a down hill spiral as i doubt she would trust you...put you self in there shoes if it was a woman doing it to you how would you feel if you found out...not tooo great
2006-06-11 07:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by rebecca m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi manny
if yoiu are really concernerd what is cheating
then telling all the girls that you are on multiple dating is not cheating.but promising them that you won't think abt another girl while gong on with multiple dates is cheating
2006-06-11 07:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you don't have a commitment to any of them and they know that theirs nothing wrong with it at all. How else would you be able to find what it is your looking for in a partner. Enjoy.
2006-06-11 07:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you are dating just on a casual level. If you are commited to one girl already, then it is cheating.
2006-06-11 07:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all the women are aware that you are dating others, than it's not cheating. If your not telling them, then it's cheating.
2006-06-11 07:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋