I never had Multiple Orgasm. Is the problem : me or my bf
2006-06-10 20:45:42 · 18 answers · asked by ♥Gilmore♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no its neither...you guys just need to explore......learn to discover things and RELAX
2006-06-10 20:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The short answer.......it could be both. You might not feel comfortable enough in your sexuallity to truly let go......or he just might not have the talent. Sex is 99% psychological. Once you get past the hangups that everyone has at some point, sex gets amazing. I thought I was "da man" when I was 20. I didn't know s**t. Now that I'm 30, I have things that most young guys don't have. Stamina, experience, and the abillity/desire to please her instead of only myself.
2006-06-10 20:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Monster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How comfortable are you with him? When you are tense, things dont always work as they should. Get out of the same ole rut... experiment either in the bedroom, or in other places. When you have a complete comfort level with him during the "act", you will be suprised at what will happen!
2006-06-10 21:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by t_lee_33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 34 and only in my later years in life have I had that experience. I don't know your age, but I will tell you this- don't concentrate on have one. And you need to be relaxed and comfortable with yourself. Let your mind go with the sensations...don't think of anything else...just let go. It may not happen for sometime. And it may not be you. it could be him...his size, technique, your environment..all those things play apart. Most of all. don't stress. it's not really all that!!
2006-06-10 20:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by taraleighsg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
multiple orgasms are rare. they depend on the woman, but just because you don't have them doesn't mean there is a problem.
2006-06-10 20:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by vita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither/nor. This is a very rare thing. It's like the gold medal in the Sexual Olympics. Stop stressing about it.
2006-06-10 20:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by spookykid313 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women don't have one, some don't have the big "O" and some don't have multiples. Relax and enjoy!
2006-06-10 20:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you, go on a diet and find someone not hung like a hamster
2006-06-10 20:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by james b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying!
2006-06-10 20:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice makes perfict it takes a while to master it
2006-06-10 20:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by mattman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋