ive been looking in church internet sites going out and still no luck so i gave up on tryin ok people help me out with this pls
2006-06-10 20:42:49 · 19 answers · asked by bigredneckfromtx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll find someone. It's corny, but your true love is out there, you just have to find them.
Be patient.
2006-06-10 20:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jack Skellington 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your feeling is nothing new and not wrong. Your concerns are valid and I understand how disheartening this game of love has been. ALl you can do is go on with your life and go to places where the setting is social, so you might bump into someone.
Being a good, caring, person does not mean that you will find a partner. It's such a game of chance and blind luck that even with all the greatest traits in the world, you still might have to wait longer than others to find what you seek.
No you are not alone and that many feel the same way you do. The girl you seek is there, you just haven't bumped into her yet.
2006-06-10 20:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient is right but you may want to evaluate your image of what you are looking for.
Lets give an example:
I am 28 and a little heavy (20lbs) small income, split home (unresolved emotional issues) and I have average looks, and a nice deep voice (some women like that)
If I am expecting a hot model to drop everything and come live with me in a small apartment, it ain't gonna happen.
Look for someone your own age (many guys look for younger)
Always overlook a few pounds on a girl.
Look for good personality before facial appearance.
And build should be roughly equivlent to you.
Never walk away from a relationship because you think you can do better (you usually cannot, unless personality is less than acceptable)
If you are happy in a relationship, you are better off than half of America (divorce rate at 50%, I think)
Date smart, not just go out any which way.
Women expect alot nowadays, meet or exceed expectations.
Take her on a date hse would enjoy (many men choose things they like and are disappointed when the girl isn't interested)
We men have to learn how to improve on our sensitivity (And I am refering to the nice guys who have a decent understanding of what not to do)
In all these different ways, it looks like the men are bending over backwards, but women bend alot too (men have back hair, smell stronger to a woman's sensitive nose and act crudely by women's standards and these are the well groomed nicely behaved guys)
Written by a guy
Learn, Think, and Plan
2006-06-10 21:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by jsbrads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think having a red neck is a big turn off.
Try getting out of the house and meeting people in a non threatening environment such as clubs that attract both sexes. Do a cooking course or learn a language. Thats where all the babes are.
2006-06-10 20:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love will come to you. if you are such a sweet guy and all that, then you will find a girl. make sure you dont rush into it too quickly because your anxious. you'll find someone when your not expecting it or when you dont want one
good luck and just be patient.
there is someone out there for you
2006-06-10 22:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that when you're not looking for love, it naturally comes to you.
Just hang in there and just have fun being friends with the ladies. Sooner or later, you'll meet someone who'll really matter to you. And the best part is because you guys are so casual, you both know each other so well, it'll be THAT much easier to know whether you get along.
2006-06-10 20:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Studier Alpha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i know how you are feeling but the best that i can say is to wait for it. Ur true love will come along one day and the wait will b well worth it. Its a shame we cant find out true love when we need them, but also i guess its our time to date other people and go through experiences to build up the strength,love and affection for the one true love. Dont worry bout it. Its not a stupid question. So many people are goin through the same thing..You are not alone :)
2006-06-10 20:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by Evie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the internet go out and mingle
church singles groups activities
local singles groups activities
get out and about
Staying at home is the wrong thing
Keep your eyes open and start having fun by yourself that will attract more than anything else
It has worked for me
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-10 20:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are not doing the social part right cuz I used to feel that way. I'm very sweet, caring, goofy, funny, passionate etc but I always wondered why I couldn't find a nice guy. I figured I was not doing the social part right. we are like products, if we don't advertise ourselves and what we got to offer, no one will know we exist ; )
2006-06-10 20:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep going with life sometimes the person you are looking for is right in front of your face. It maybe rough now but it will happen it just takes time like most things in life.
2006-06-10 20:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by pinkmonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you need to stop looking and let love find you. Go to church and pray about it. When you get your life right with God believe me he will bring the other person to you
2006-06-10 20:46:42 · answer #11 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋