She says its only to talk to her daughter, but she ends up talking to him for most of the time. She also deletes his number whenever he calls so I dont see. She speaks thai so I dont understand most of what is being said. He has sent me e-mails saying she tells him she loves him. Does she want her cake and eat it too. What should I do?
2006-06-10 20:15:12 · 25 answers · asked by Jimbo 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to give her the benefit of the doubt. If she tells him he loves her then why is she with you? If their bond is so strong, why are they not together?
It obviously bothers you that they talk so it's a bit understandable that she deletes his number. Just tell her that it really, really bothers you and tell her about the e-mails you received. If she doesn't let up, then leave her.
2006-06-10 20:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she speaks in a language that you can not understand to her ex, then I would have to just end that mess. She is not respecting you or your feelings. How do you like someone stabbing you in the heart while you are looking right at them because that is exactly what is happening here. She can look you dead in the eye and tell the ex "I love you" without you even thinking twice about it. I'd dump that trash and go find me a Good ol American girl that I could understand.
2006-06-10 20:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by ^v^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her those e-mail and confront her.... you're not being paranoid, he wants her for sure; so you can ask her to stop talking to him that often (or at all), but not keeping her away from her daughter. If she refuses, well, it's a signal that shows she's not over him and you must find a real woman.... good luck
2006-06-10 20:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by ma_isa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to infringe but this clearly isn't working out for you. she obviously has commitment problems and is unable to be utterly loyal and devoted to you alone but what can you expect she obviously has close ties to this guy (they had a kid together fcol) but this is clearly bothering you so it's time to end this 3 way relationship before you truly get hurt. find some one who won't keep secrets and speak in code and no DON'T "slap da ho" that would be lunacy
2006-06-10 20:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is eating more than cake. you can't do anything she has to do something. well you could leave her but she won't miss you, she has a backup plan. start calling your ex. see if it's ok with her, just don't announce it, let her discover it. games usually don't work to your benefit either. eye for an eye leaves everybody blind.
2006-06-10 20:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she's being secretive about it means she knows she's doing something wrong. The fact that her ex is confirming it means you need to buy the girl a bus ticket toute friggin' suite.
2006-06-10 20:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by Guelph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a good deed. Get them together for the sake of the child.
Some kind girl who reads your plight in Yahoo may appreciate this act of yours and sign u up.
Best of Luck.
2006-06-10 20:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by AEZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to sit her down and have a long heart to heart with her. Be honest and tell her what you're feeling. Mention the ex emailing you, and ask her to be honest with you. You deserve that.
If she's not willing to open up and be honest with you, then it's time to move on.
2006-06-10 20:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so .u also talk 2 sum1 in front of her & let her make 2 feel jealous.if this not work then in front of her said that i dont need u know i hv get a very rich & smart gf.are yaar see pyaar to hona hi tha
2006-06-10 20:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by mahi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get out. This will only cause problems and drama and I think we all had enough of that in high school.
2006-06-10 20:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by pinkmonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋