im really in love with him not a crush it wont blow over he dosnt know weather to like me or not please some one treat me like an adult i know its love cut the shi* out i love him be suportiv help i dont know what to say
2006-06-10 20:01:20 · 10 answers · asked by m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey girl you're too young to be in love. you know girl that's only an infatuation, A foolish, unreasoning, or extravagant passion or attraction. and that's different from "love" you said. girl grow up first. time will come and you will feel the true love.
good luck girl... :-)
2006-06-10 20:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by lonely trix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is, you ARE a kid. I am a kid, and probably half the people that answered your questions are kids. You are legally a kid until you're 18, and some people are just more mature than others, which is why they're treated as adults at a young age. I know that you don't want to listen to what I said on your other question, but the truth is, it's good advice. Even if you DO love him like you say you do, you're still very young and there's nothing you can do about that except wait. Chances are, if you get into a serious relationship now, as young as you are, there is a chance that you'll wind up doing a LOT of things that you are going to regret later. Especially if this is your first relationship, if it lasts and you get emotionally attatched, which you already seem to be, it's going to be incredibly hard. First love is always hard, no matter how old you are. Studies show that the sooner girls get into serious relationships, the higher the chance of them getting pregnant while still in high school. I'm not trying to hurt anybody with this statement, just going by statistics. I know that I am a completely different person than I was at 13, and my morals have changed completely and I'm glad that I didn't do MORE things that I would regret later, and I regret a lot. When you're 13, you're just coming into your own and your hormones are raging and you tend to be confused about whether you're an adult or a kid. It's a transition, which is hard for anybody. It is a very confusing age, which is why I would advise to wait on this boy. Also, chances are if you tell him you love him and act obsessed with him, it's going to scare him off. I've found that the best relationships are the ones where the girl doesn't chase the guy, and is often completely oblivious to the fact that he likes her. Back off for awhile, let him come to you. Men love mystery, and the more mysterious you are and the more you make him wonder what's really going on on the inside, the more he'll probably like you. Don't be easy to read, and don't jump the gun. Just stay cool, be laid back and nonchalant. The more you chase him the more he's going to back off from you. Guy's hate to be smothered and hate clingy chicks, and chances are that if you are at his every beck and call, he could turn into a control freak, and you don't want him to be with you just because he likes the power do you? Even if you did that just to be with him, you will find out real fast that it's not all it's cracked up to be and that you're unhappy. Trust me, you start to miss yourself after awhile. Just think about what I said, and if it's worth potentially throwing everything you already have away, then I guess do what you want to do. But, I think I have some decent advice. If you don't use it now, at least keep it in mind for later. I'm sure it'll come in handy at some point.
2006-06-10 20:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you are 13 or 33 love is hard. If you love him and he doesn't reciprocate then you may just have to live with that. It can hurt, but loving someone unselfishly can always be a good thing. Be honest with him and yourself about what you want and deserve. You will find that you can find happiness in just loving someone even if they do not love you back.
2006-06-10 20:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by bortiepie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him let him know how you feel, if he doesn't reciprocate you are still young there are plenty fish in the sea, and plenty more guys out there to fall in love with. Right now it feels like there is no one else out there that you could love in the entire world, but trust me...time is the ultimate healer...just tell him!
2006-06-10 20:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys your age are idiots. once you get a boyfriend you will in all likelihood wish you hadn't. you may attempt staring at, the marriage Singer, and hear Adam Sandler sing " Love Stinks". it is going to positioned issues in perspective.
2016-12-08 19:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him what you told us, im sorry if i treated you like a kid, i know that sucks. all you can do is tell him and hope he feels the same way, good luck, i hope you get what you are after
2006-06-10 20:04:52 · answer #6 · answered by zombie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him what you truly feel.
maybe he's too shy to tell you that he loves you too.
u'll never know.
just try to kid around him, like for example,
tell him that you love him
and wait for an answer, or ask him what he feels about you, then just tell him, "i was just kidding".
go0d luck!
2006-06-10 20:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by IamKulotlot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you are trippin! dont be a fool. your not too young but right now, you dont understand. you just feel lust. dont tell him you love him, tell him you like him and would like to be with him. and my favorite thing to say, dont be stupid, use protection.
2006-06-10 20:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by different_type_of_love21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him so much..y don't u ask him out? this way u'll also know whether it is a crush or true love...
2006-06-10 20:06:14 · answer #9 · answered by avani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're so young and immature you don't love him you intensely lust him and must have him grow up little baby you should be dressing barbies now not this baby girl
2006-06-10 20:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋