2006-06-10 19:19:01 · 16 answers · asked by questionable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on the nature of the relationship.
In some relationships, it can make it stronger on both sides. In others, you can feel used and it can break the relationship.
If you need to ask a simple question like that and don't already have a good idea of the answer, you are not mature enough to be having sex.
2006-06-10 19:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by Snippet 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Many people think that is the only important thing and are only looking at the physical relationship not the emotional one which is so much more. Sex is a very small part of a real marriage and to make it work you have to be able to deal with all the problems.
Mutual goals and desires for future are the important things and agreeing on how to get there. Children and how to raise them. Decisions about belongings i.e. house cars furniture etc.. None of this has anything to do with sex.. Also religious beliefs and dealing with family members.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-10 19:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what you want out of a sexual encounter. If you are thinking it will bring you closer to the man in question, your wrong. Men don't view sex the same as women. Don't get into a sexual relationship with someone you don't intend to invest time and energy in to. Be prepared to face the realities of sex, sometimes it just that, sex. If you are mature enough to handle all of the complexities that are involved with being intimate, then enjoy it, and don't over analyze the situation too much. Peace.
2006-06-13 02:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by julianna76301 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on if your inlove with the one your haveing sex with. If your not and your just doing it to be doing it then all its going to do is give off false fillings. If your in love then sex adds a lot to your relationship makeing it more enjoyable for both parties.
2006-06-10 19:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Bobby L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you discover a whole different side of your lover. That side can be good or bad. If its good then the term "making love" will come along and the term "sex" will rarely be used...theres a difference between making love and sex. And it can be bad because you will find out if your man was an a** or not cause maybe thats all he wanted you for. You never know...
2006-06-10 19:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u make luv 2 someone u truly love & care 4, sex bonds both of u closer.. its like a feeling that u & him r 1...
sex 4 me is not only an act 2 relieve & pleasure urselves. sex expresses my intimate feelings & passion 4 my babe..
i only make love 2 my special 1...
2006-06-10 19:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls- i cant honestly say because im not a girl, but as a geuss, it makes them feel more intimate and closer to the guy, as i said im not a girl so that might be completely off
guys- makes them happy that all that work that was put into that girl finally paid off, and if it was good, they might stay (of course that is the jerks, there are a few who feel differently)
2006-06-10 19:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by zombie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can if you let it. You need to know each other's expectations of the relationship itself. You two need to be on the same page. If you're not on the same page yet then I would hold off.
2006-06-10 19:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by jacquelinebrns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex seems to bore a relationship if you have it constantly...if your not there mentally in a relationship its not likely that it will last...physical attraction is usually the base..
2006-06-10 19:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by drama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women tend to put more into sex that man do, to them it's just sex but to a women we feel like we have given a special part of yourself away.
2006-06-10 19:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by lurena r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋