2006-06-10 18:56:11 · 15 answers · asked by jel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he used you. don't waste anymore of your time trying to reach him. he's probably braggin to his friends how you're d**k whipped now and you won't leave him alone.
2006-06-10 19:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is a little complicated because there aren't many details. Rule of thumb: If you slept with someone REALLY fast (i.e., the first date, or worse yet, right after you met them in a bar) then the sex probably didn't mean as much as it would have if you dated for 6 weeks, etc. So, if you had sex with this guy and he never calls you, it was just a fling. If you liked the guy (which I'm guessing you did) I would HIGHLY advise you to NOT call him. If you break down and call him (or several times) this lowers you and makes you look like HE is the one with the power. The longer he waits to call you, the more you should play hard to get. HE will be the one wondering why you aren't all broken up about losing him. Also, FYI, sex to most younger guys (under 27) is like food- you have it, but then after about a week or so it's on your mind 24/7. If he calls, then you make your position known, like "I think we rushed into things, I need to slow down and focus more on the courtship instead of being physical." Then you can see what the guy really wants from you...
Hope this helps :)
2006-06-10 19:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ihavenoidea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK give they guy 3 days. That is the man rule you have to wait to call a girl back after the deed. If he doesn't call by then he is a jerk and you are better off without him.
2006-06-10 19:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by The Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it is called being used. I empathize that this happened to you. I have been there. First take notice that is what happened. Then, next time you see him act like it didn't bother you. It really gets them wondering. Like I always say, smile it makes the world wonder what you are up to.....
2006-06-10 19:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry that that happened to you but, just consider it a learning experience and don't do it again and get a bad reputation unless that is your goal. Guys talk too.
2006-06-10 19:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by Colleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as long as you get good sex its ok. Just dont expect for him to call you. Just go out and find another guy that makes you happy even if its only tempoary.
2006-06-10 19:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by b-buddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY TO SAY YOU GOT PLAYED LIKE A KENNY G PLAYS THE SAX, IF HE HASN'T CALLED AFTER 3 DAYS (THE GENERAL GUY RULE) THEN IT WAS JUST A WAM, BAM THANK YOU MAM KIND OF THING. BY THE WAY GUYS DO TALK TOO LIKE WOMAN, AND HIS FRIENDS AND ANYONE ELSE WHO HE TALKS TOO KNOWS ABOUT IT. SORRY, THANK YOU AND GOOD NIGHT.
2006-06-10 20:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ruben S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was good, to heck with him and move on, it's not that he's not calling you, you are just too damn important to call him back.
If it was bad, why would you want him to call you back?
2006-06-10 19:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by sweetcheripie25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He found out you were a skank and easy...MEN HATE THAT!
You are what my male friends call an f and c...**** and chuck.
Next time wait much longer, any man who is worth it will wait.
2006-06-10 19:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I think you will just have to let him go.. Once some men have got what they want, they move on..
2006-06-10 19:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋