This girl asked me if i would go out with her (like bf gf type thing) and i said yes, but its been like a week and she hasn't called or anything. Whats up? She asked me so i shouldn't have to make the first move right? Its been kind of a long time so did she meen it? Should i talk to her first if i decide to start a diffrent relationship with someone else? i'm kind of confused so please help!
2006-06-10 18:26:24 · 11 answers · asked by Silverstein!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, more like 10 days
2006-06-11 10:17:47 · update #1
ok, talk to her first like nothings wrong. if she is acting weird, tell her that you didnt think it would work out because you never talk. wait a week, then start a new relationship (you have to wait so she doesnt feel like a ho and so you dont hurt her feelings).
2006-06-10 18:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Marines 4 Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be very busy with other things that she hasn't called you yet for the date that she asked you. You might as well call her but not to ask her about it. Just talk about other things. Tell her that you just called because you want to see how she is doing these days. With that, you would know what she's up to lately and your call might even remind her of her pending date with you. If she recalls it, you will know if she still will pursue going out with you or if she will call off the date.
If you like this girl, you should not think of starting a different relationship with another girl. Not at the moment. You have to make sure that she is no longer interested in you and that there's no more hope for you to have a good romantic relationship with her before you do your next move concerning other women.
Act now. Call her and you will never go wrong.
2006-06-11 01:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not say how old you are so I'll do the best I can. Sometimes women like validation of who they are, how they look, are they desirable, etc. They put out the bait and see who takes it. Other times, they are genuinely interested. If she asked you and you are waiting for her to call, why? If you like her call her, but please be prepared for her respond either way. A week is not very long....communication is the answer here. Just ask. A good or bad response - either way, at least you'll know. Good luck!
2006-06-11 01:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by tizzy1432 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably wondering if YOU like HER. I bet it took a lot of guts for her to come up to you and ask you out, and now she hasn't heard from you, so now she's debating whether or not you like her, and she's probably afraid to talk to you because since she hasn't heard from you, she probably thinks you don't like her anymore.
Complicated, I know. But trust me, I've been there.
She asked you, and if you're interested, give her a call, or get in contact with her sometime and let her know you're still interested. If she isn't, tell her it's no big deal, and that you were thinking of asking somebody else anyway.
Hope all goes well!
2006-06-11 01:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what's up before "going" with someone else, just to be safe of course.
She could be the type that wants the guy to make the first move, Maybe you should try that... ; )
2006-06-11 01:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by kiki Dee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well did u make plans and go on the date? either way if she hasn't mentioneed like she thinks it never existed then she was plaing you. I hope she didn't so next time u see her ask her if she wanted to go out sometime. that should get u back on the line
2006-06-11 22:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by holygrail Kniggit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she made the first move.. so you ask her out on the date
2006-06-11 01:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you are interested in her coz you are waiting....if you don't want to appear to eager for the date, you can ask her about it..."hey, i thought you like to spend time with me...i'd like that too...so if you're not busy..we can do it sometime."
simple as that..
2006-06-11 02:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on with your life it happened to me once i was sad
2006-06-11 01:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by cat_bethany_shorter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it another week, then go on homie
2006-06-11 01:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by i will say Lean Wit it Rock Wi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋