I even had one guy tell me that if I didn't look the way I did NO one will talk to me..it hurt so much and all these other guys just approach me because of how I look...I was with this one guy who treated me great but after the break up I blamed myself, I still do because I feel used like he didn't really like me for me just for my looks..He still stares at me, which is probably because of my looks again. I am not a bad person, I am funny, smart, friendly, I have morals...
WHAT AM I DOING wrong?
2006-06-10 17:44:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't worry! u will!!
2006-06-10 17:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Tan 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I somehow get the feeling you're too focused on your looks.
There are plenty of good looking women out there.
And the differentiators usually are personality.
So if you focus more on the way you are rather than the way you look, you will surely find some one very soon who likes you for your personality.
Well, if I'm interested in a good looking woman, I hardly comment about her looks. I really focus a compliment around her personality. So if you meet a guy who only tells you, how beautiful you are, and gives you all this cheap compliments, chances are high, he's really only interested in you for the looks.
So just listen carefully, get your focus away from looks, and you'll be able to sort the good from the 'bad'..
2006-06-10 18:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by SomeOneWhoKnowsBetter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people care about looks.If your not pretty no one will like you only as a friend there are very very few people who like you for the way you act.If your hot everybody will be crushing on you.The worst thing is that some people cry over how they look and they wish to be somebody else that is more pretty then them.What I hat is that now all people think aboutis how they look.Your not doing anything wrong it's them.
2006-06-10 18:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot. You're doing a lot wrong.
Most guys are going after someone with looks. They don't care or believe in your whole personality, and they don't want to know anyone in depth.
There are very few guys who want to know the whole personality of their girlfriend. Such guys are HIDING --wisely!
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2006-06-10 17:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it. Guys are very visual creatures. They are first attracted to women by their physical appearence and then personality. If you are over weight and you don't take care of yourself, chances are you will find a guy who is about your equal. If you are looking for a hot guy (by general standards) you will need to get a grip and fix yourself up and look good. While many of your friends and family will not tell you this, I am brutally honest in telling you that guys are very visual and women are more sensitive and look for other attributes in guys.. Therefore, if you're looking for a guy, LOOK GOOD and you will find him.
2006-06-10 18:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by j_darpino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking all the wrong question of them , don't be with guys that like your looks only , take your time in knowing them and if it goes bad your hearts not so broken
2006-06-10 17:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋