and have been with for over 4 years and then all of a sudden they don't want to be with you any more. How do you get that person out of your mind and continue living your life as if they were never in it.
2006-06-10 17:34:24 · 9 answers · asked by jetskier6944 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-10 17:46:01 · update #1
The good news is that time is on your side. So you'll surely get over it.
One way to speed things up a little, could be if you focus your memory on all the things that you didn't like and that made you upset.
Another good way of making it easier, is to go out and see all the others who are looking for a relationship themselves.
2006-06-10 18:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by SomeOneWhoKnowsBetter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, when someone even greater comes along, at some point, the memories of the last love start to fade. That was my experience. Just keep yourself busy and go on with your life best you can solo, and eventually it'll pass.
2006-06-11 00:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with that much time involved you can't continue your life as if they were never in it, loving that person has formed the person you are, the only thing you can do is keep going and eventually they will be a fond memory
2006-06-11 00:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by jackie j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you never really get over them they will always be in your heart but you have to move on and try to see other people! If you need to talk my email is hotdavidsgirlyahoo.com
2006-06-11 00:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by princess fiona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thoughts will not just go away that fast...it's going to be hard really....why don't you sit on it and let your pain out, cry if you feel like to....the only way to face pain is to acknowledge it....after that, get rid of the things that remind her of you - everywhere....and try to avoid going to the places you've been if you can help it..
you need courage and determination, we can only advice but it's still you who have to do it....
2006-06-11 02:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't forget.
You can't erase 4 years of your life.
It's difficult and painful now.
But time will soothe the pain, and your wounds will heal.
Just give it time.
2006-06-11 00:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by Aritmentor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really don't get over them you just have to deal with the fact that they don't want you remember it takes 2 to tango so if one wants to dance and the other want to be at the bar it ain't gonna work
2006-06-11 00:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by sicivic05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of a bad aspect of him/her
the things he does bad
2006-06-11 00:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by ever_humble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take up a hobby.
2006-06-11 01:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by Blah..... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋