My bf and I have been dating for 8 months. The past two months we haven't been as happy together as we should be. I was insecure about how he felt (he would talk about other women & what he liked about them) I went out of my way to do things for him and buy things to get him to see he could never do better than me. I didn't show him much affection or spend that much time with him just enjoying him and us. He did not make me feel like I was the only one for him, like I was special to him. Last night, he called me. Then an hour later he called to break up with me accusing me of cheating on him, which never happened and it has no basis. He was drunk. The next morning he told me we were over, and I asked about being friends and if it was over forever. That night he called me 9 times and got angry when I didn't pick up. We talked for 2 hours about what was wrong. He said he wished we had talked sooner & is acting like it's too late now. Yet, he called me! What do I do? I want him back!
2006-06-10 16:45:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like he isnt finding everything he needs in your relationship and now he's trying to sort himself out.
He might come back and he might not. He's confused right now, let him figure it out
2006-06-10 16:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know how you feel. if hes not feeling you then try not to chase after him. He will eventually come back if he really loves you. usually when a boy accuses you of doing something, he just looking for a reason to break up with you. If you feel that hes the right one, then just try talking to him and see what happens. If the plan fails, theres plenty more fish in the sea. You may think there is no one else out there for you other than him but truth is, its someome much more better than him!
2006-06-10 17:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by TheTroubledOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u really want to be with a guy like that? Who treats u really bad, don't give what u need, acts like a jerk in public. You need to drop him, there are other guys in this world who are looking for the one. You are complaning about this loser. Do u want to ask his permission to go pee? Think about, an loser is someone like him. You want him back? If u go back, you will be the women who never did anything. Do u want that kind of life? I don't know, if u go back to him, u will be an loser also and nobody.
2006-06-10 16:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Stinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you cannot buy affection because it will never work out.....He is basically just using you if that is all that he wants.....You should just give it sone time first to see if he changes his mind about it and if he does then tell him that there will be more alone time and less money spent on him and if he is very dissappointed about it then i guess he was only in the relationship for the money.....Good luck........
2006-06-10 16:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go girl , let it go ! What men don't understand is that talking about other women to you is not a good thing, and saying that they do things better and more 4 them , let him go u can do better than that , u can . LET IT GO , HIM !
2006-06-10 16:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by ymomzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is confuse about his feelings. I think you guys shouldn't talk to each for about a week. That should clear his mind and ask him if he still likes you.
2006-06-10 16:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by Berties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts but I think you should cut your losses and move on. It sounds like he's still shopping around. You are better than that! I think he knows it.
2006-06-10 16:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go and maybe in your next relationship youll show him more affection and spend more time with him
2006-06-10 16:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Risa' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back with him. simple as that. He was confused and now its up to you to go back with him or not. so choose. you wanna go back with him or stay broken up. Make a choice
2006-06-10 16:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want him back!
2006-06-10 16:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋