my bf and i are 14. my bro is 12. my bf and my bro are on the same baseball team and are pretty good friends. my brother knows that we are going out and has no problem with it. he and my bf want to have a sleepover at our house. my bf totally respects me and i respect him and we know we wouldnt do anything disgusting, just maybe kiss like we normally do. do you have any thoughts on this? is this wrong? i personally have no problem with it except for the awkwardness...share your thoughts!
2006-06-10 16:40:28 · 11 answers · asked by sarasugar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, my parents know that we are close friends and that my brother and him are close. my brother has slept over at my bf's house before with no problem. my bf has in mind that we would just wait for my brother to fall asleep and go watch a movie or something. again, he and i totally respect each other and he would never even think about sex and neither am i.....thanks for the advice! keep it coming!
2006-06-10 17:24:30 · update #1
also my brother and my bf would sleep on the couch bed in our family room and id be on the other side of the house
2006-06-10 17:25:27 · update #2
it's not wrong it just normal cow
2006-06-10 16:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Cool Cow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you have to keep saying "nothing is going to happen" is like you are trying to convince us or yourself that it won't. You didn't say you are not going bungee jumping because you know THAT AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN. I think the best advice you got is to go sleep at a friend's house while your brother and his friend/your b/f is there. Just saying you will wait for the brother to fall asleep then go sneak and watch a movie had more red flags then the Kremlin. Why not just tell the brother you and his friend will stay up late to share a movie? How would you explain it if he wakes in the middle of the night to take a leak and discover his friend gone and then find you two "watching" a movie? Would he not feel betrayed? And if you were not disturbed "watching" a movie. Even if you just got felt up and nothing more, it WILL be more when retold. And what would that do for your brother on the team? Why put him in that position. Thinks of the others and not just for yourself.
2006-06-24 17:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are your parents going to be there and is your bf going to be sharing a room with your brother? If so then it doesn't seem like it's too risky of an idea.
2006-06-10 23:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by Martin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to have a boyfriend. You be having slumber parties with GIRLS not a boy! I bet your parents don't even know you kiss him Huh? I think you shouldn't have the sleep over with your so called friend! Or you might get knocked up!
2006-06-24 22:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it matters on his personality. If you two were to break up would he tell people that he slept over at your house? I think that the smartest thing to do is for you to go sleepover at one of your friend's houses. It will ease the temptation of doing anything with him, and it will help the relationship to grow.
2006-06-10 23:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by Volleyball Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could sleep over with a friend while he sleeps over with your brother. you're all too young to get caught up in this kind of drama. do you want the entire baseball team talking about you? because they will. and word will get around.
2006-06-10 23:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by ŧťŠ4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bf 14 hang out with 12 year old. you need to talk to your parents and not ask strangers for advice
2006-06-10 23:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is friends with your brother, and your parents are cool with it, there should be no problem. But remember that he is there for your brother and not to monopolize his time.
2006-06-10 23:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not safe. When you and he break up he will tell everyone that you "went all the way" don't put yourself into a situation that looks this bad.
2006-06-10 23:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by dbzgalaxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are going to have fun, just make sure you don't get caught by the parents. i think you should go for it.
2006-06-10 23:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by m_rae0232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋