my boyfriend and i have been going out for like 2 months. i really love him a lot and we are taking things slow. we haven't kissed yet because we are never alone. someone we both know is always around us. my parents wont let me go out on a date with him alone because they are really protective. and on top of that i dont know what to do when i'm around him. what the heck do i do?
2006-06-10 16:06:53 · 20 answers · asked by Amanda Panda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your never alone with him somthing has gotta change.
im not saying break up with him but scheduale somthing.
do somthing wild like have him sneak in a girls washroom to kiss you. win your parents a vacation or somthing. occupy thier time so they cant be so darn protective.
play a joke that involves you 2 kissing. for example on the movie "save the last dance" this white girl and this black guy were on a train together this old women was looking at them like wth!? and they started getting all close and stuff and she left and they started laughing. although they didnt kiss you could play a joke or somthin.
note it doesnt have to be interracial. you've got a brain, think of somthing.
I hope my advice helped and if it did please promise me one thing.
dont post a question on how to have sex, their your on your own lol
2006-06-10 16:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by not me but you 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're not taking things slowly if you're trying to make attempts of kissing in a span of 2 months! how much do you know each other? too well or not that much? why the rush of going out on a date alone? you can have a nice date just outside your porch...not much of a privacy though coz from time to time your parents would try to come in for a conversation.
if you love the guy, make your parents love him too so they can give him all the trust. and they don't have to worry much about you going out on a date.
parents wants all the best for you. protective in some ways, but that's love dear...
2006-06-10 16:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why hasn't he kissed you after 2 months? that ain't right, a gurl shouldn't have to worry about being kissed. he should have been sucking the food from between your teeth by now. write him a note and say: kiss me you fool. or what does it take for a gurl to get a kiss around here. anything to give him a sign of what you want. he may believe that you bought into your parents idea that kissing will get you pregnant. yes I have kids and I know that kids will be kids and the harder you try to keep them from doing something the more they will want it. all my kids were born after I was married and they were planned. (for all you parents that think I am telling her wrong).
2006-06-10 16:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get a chance, breath heavy in his ear and he will know what you want. If you ever get by a closet, take control and pull him in there and kiss him. Tell him how you feel too. A closet is always the best because you can disapear in no time away from everyone.
2006-06-10 16:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lookinstr8over 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can tell u is that if u really want that kiss,tell him when u get a chance and tell the person that is with u that u need some time alone with ur boyfriend and that you'll be right back..then take ur boyfriend and just kiss him and return back to your friend!!!
i hope that answers ur question!!!!
2006-06-10 16:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by fairy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it if that person is a friend of one of you cause it is good that a person is around in case he tries to do something funny but kiss him any way and he shouldn't mind if a friend is around cause if he likes you he wouldlet you kiss him and if you would like anymore advice about things like that hit me up at royal_ridge_girl@yahoo.com
2006-06-10 16:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by thick&cute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's Ok to kiss him in front of othe people, just not make out with him. Frenching in front of others ia serious no-no. But kissing him is ok. Maybe you should let your parents talk to him and see where his head is in regard to his intentions for your relationship, then maybe they woudl be a little more open to letting you date him and be with him privately
2006-06-10 16:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by duncanchild7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u study his personality..being with boyfriend doesnt mean u have to kiss or have sex . if u loe him too much talk about ur future ,love, tell him how much u love a nd care for him..maybe he becme ur husband oneday if u study his personality really good.
2006-06-10 16:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by sasa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats horrible. i used to have a boyfriend and we were never alone his friends used to follow us and stuff it was crazy!
but what u could do is talk to him on the phone and plan some alone time togeather that no one knows about.
2006-06-10 16:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww, I was in this same situation too. basically, i just whispered to him that i wanted to kiss him. And we made it happen...lol, it was so funny cause it was around exam time (in high school) and after the exam he told me he did really well...maybe it was something that happened b4..:p
2006-06-10 16:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by M V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋