I have known this gentleman for 20 years and were reunited and have fallen madly in love and I still have a fear of the unknown after being married for 14 years.What to do???
2006-06-10 16:02:03 · 9 answers · asked by Bella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just stay with each other to check out each other's habbits but don't live together until you know it's right
2006-06-10 16:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by J J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it as slow as you need to. But knowing someone for 20 yrs is a long time. I wouldn't say that there is too much of any of the "unknown".
And being married for 14 yrs... I can understand. I was married for 12 and the fear of the unknown is scary and a big step to take.
But eventually, and you will know when the time is right, but there will be a time when you know when to take the step into the unknown.
But I know that if I knew a gentleman for 20 plus years and I had the opportunity for love again, I would take it.
What are we losing if we chose to do this? there is nothing to lose. If he and you are both game then my goodness, go for it..
You deserve happiness...
2006-06-10 23:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by xxxcariooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not co habitate........just asking for trouble with this living situation.......value your time and space! If he wants to be with you, he'll find ways. But don't live together. Believe me, I speak from expierience. I'm not saying this due to religion or being prudish.......oh, far from it. Keep your space and he keeps his......unless or until you tie the knot.........from a mid 40's gal who has made the mistake.
2006-06-10 23:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're still married, it's too soon. If not - let your heart, not your hormones be your guide. Are you ready to keep the commitment? Is he?
2006-06-10 23:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by MM_1958 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel deep down in your heart that this is for real with you and him then I would give it a shot.
2006-06-10 23:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by kalphilly2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too soon is if you have to ask.
2006-06-10 23:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by tictak kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you guys are meant to be?
2006-06-10 23:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does your heart tell you?
2006-06-10 23:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by Cha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.. !
2006-06-10 23:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋