my boyfriend is so cute and sweet and i just like him to death but when he is around me, its kinda like he really likes me back and stuff but he kinda seems to be a little bit more quiet than he is with his friends when im not there. i know this because one of my friends is g/f to his friend and she says he is really loud but he never is really loud w/ me... i was just wondering is that just b/c he likes me or is it b/c i make him uncomfortable? i was also wondering if there was any way to get rid of the awkward silences. i know he likes me a lot but sometimes we just run out of things to say?
2006-06-10 15:53:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's because he likes you a lot and he don't want to say the wrong thing to embarrass himself...do something crazy in front of him or just find something to make him feel a little more comfortable with himself and not so nervous around you...
2006-06-10 15:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by nikki_mh02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He appears that he knows how to separate his behavior with his friends from his behavior with you, which is not a bad thing. My fiancee is very loud and rowdy when he is out and different when we are home together and I appreciate it.
Ask him and see what he says.
2006-06-10 23:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by duncanchild7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i kind of think that its b/c he likes you. i just recently got involved into a relationship b/c of those silent moments and talks with a boy. i had no idea he liked me before till the day that we talked on the couch for HOURS. his friends told me that he's never quiet and still but he was when we were together.
2006-06-10 22:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by hello411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes trying to be polite by not being really loud around you, give it some time and i'm sure he will be more himself soon!
2006-06-10 22:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by bec 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just unsure of how to act around you. He respects you, so he doesnt want to be, like, mean or anything. He might have a hard time opening up and acting natural. So just be comfortable around him and he'll loosen up.
2006-06-10 23:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are all wrong when guys and men are quite around their girl friends it means that they are very comfortable and that they can just shut and be themselves.
OR
hes thinking about the other girlfriends he has and what they do that you don't.
hope it is the first one for you take care
2006-06-10 23:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by elman411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband acts differently when hes around his friends. Its the same with anybody i think when they are around their good friends. Hes still himself but you see him laugh more and stuff like that hes not like that with me. Theres just a difference between your wife/ husband/bf/gf and your friends. In my opinion!
2006-06-10 23:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Politely, just ask him this question directly. Guys LIKE DIRECTNESS. He will appreciate it. Do not expect an immediate answer, he may not know. Just ask him to look: and when he has an anwer tell you.
2006-06-10 23:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by John C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the way men are!! they have 2 faces;; sensitive w/ the gf and regualr and loud with the friends. talk to him or something. but its just natural!!
2006-06-10 22:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by Monica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just shy during the time he is in front of his friends.
2006-06-10 23:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by XXXDirtyDirtyGirlXXX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋