Do you like a man who gets very emotional, more so than you? Do you like a man who whines about everything? Does it violate your concept of a manly man, or do you say anything goes these days?
2006-06-10 15:35:27 · 9 answers · asked by Zelda Hunter 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Whining definitely violates my image of the manly man. Ill-mannered children and spoiled women whine.
Tears, it depends. I've seen tears in my husband's eyes twice, at the graduations of his son and daughter. He broke down once many years ago, due to a situation I won't detail here, but the tears were understandable and his emotions were human. My husband is one of the most manly men I know, but I've seen him cry and I've witnessed a moment of heavy emotion, and it didn't lessen his manly appeal in my eyes.
2006-06-10 16:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am generally less emotional than most women...or at least better at keeping my emotions to myself. I would certainly not enjoy the company of a man who whined like a little b*tch all the time. However, if a man who was normally strong and unemotional shared his feelings with me, I would feel really honored and definitely turned on (assuming that I was into him to begin with).
2006-06-10 23:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by NA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it definately violates my idea of not only a manly man, but a man in general. Gay men are the exception, but for a straight, I would freak out if I saw a guy cry. Maybe I'm old fashioned, and as much as I believe equal rights, I belive men are womens caretakers. Even when they're little boys they learn how to suck it up. And as girls and women, we are allowed to be as dramatic as possible. It's not right for men to cry, it's gay.
2006-06-10 23:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by heybitches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a freind T. who in public is your hard head. Big strong, and don't want to mess with type of guy. But with me, he does let that guard down and lets me see the softer side, and I like that. This shows me that he is real. 2. I do not like anyone that whines.
2006-06-10 22:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by teambargain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends of how often he whines... If he gets very emotional its cause he is sensitive. Not sure if I love it or not.
2006-06-10 22:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Marquel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't mind it if a guy gets emotional sometimes but not ALL the time.But I do want him to have a heart you know.
2006-06-10 22:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like whining all together-male, female or other!
2006-06-10 22:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it may depend on the man..who is he etc.
2006-06-10 22:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men need to stop being bitches
2006-06-10 23:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by sarahsarah09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋