we will be together 2 years on the 17 of this month im tired of it an i dont hit back plaese help im at the end of my rope
2006-06-10 14:33:48 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i called you one before and let me say it again PUNK/////////
2006-06-10 14:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like woman being beaten by men, men being beaten by women the pattern will continue and become more violent. She was exposed to violence somewhere and will not be able to stop without help. You should move out, there are support groups where you can obtain educational materials and get help for yourself. If you can not find one in your area call the battered women shelter and ask them about the same type of help for men. You only have two years of your life invested with her, so getting out of the relationship is possible and a good idea but if that's not what you want you need to understand what is going on with her and with you.
2006-06-10 14:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by annie red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if it happens again you will leave. Dont make an empty threat. If she hits you, pack a bag and walk out. If the situation is too dangerous to pack a bag just walk out. You can go to family or a friends house and borrow some clothes from them. If you can't you can always go to the store for a change of clothes. Talk to your family and friends and find out who would be the best one that you can go to at the drop of a hat. Make a plan and be prepared.
2006-06-10 14:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by Luvnu_always baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go to Domestic Violence and Abuse Counseling in your area or call them they have a 800 # that is open 24 hours a day it is not just for woman. As a matter of fact men are hit a lot it is just not talked about. You will find this number in your white pages.
2006-06-10 14:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by rottenkid4560 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is 10 times too many. Let her know that you do not need to bull and if she wants a punching bag go to the gym. You should have stopped her after the first time. Her life must have been built on open hostility and loads of abuse. She is definitely not a keeper.
2006-06-10 14:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by hardnose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in people taking advantage of you.
No matter how hard you try she isn't going to change if she has an abusive addiction. my opinion is that once is to much . you are not her child that in itself should mean something.
right now is the time for you to focus on God. He's the only one who can give you the kind of relationship you really desire; but you must put God first in all things and then shall all other things be added. as long as you are unequally yoke you will have constant difficulties inside of your relationship.That means that if you are unsaved and your spouse is saved or, the other way around then you are unequally yoked.
2006-06-10 14:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you the same thing I would tell a girl in your situation. It's only going to get worse. No one has the right to abuse any one else. Physical, mental, verbal is all wrong. You should leave her. You can find someone else who will treat you with respect and love. Once the hitting starts, it doesn't stop!! Please get out of this relationship! Good luck
2006-06-11 11:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by fungirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to her and tell her that you are tired of her hitting you. You need to be honest with her. Tell her that she needs to get into anger management classes and that you would like for her to see a counselor too. She needs to know that if she doesn't make an effort to change you aren't going to stick around to keep being abused.
2006-06-10 14:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not willing to get help, you should leave her. No one should ever lay a hand on another human being. Good for you not hitting back though, that wouldn't solve anything. But you should consider getting out before it gets worse. I wish you the best. She won't change unless she seeks professional help for her anger.
2006-06-10 14:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like, abuse. Get another woman, you dont need that. I give you props for not hitting a woman back, but a woman should not hit a guy either. Break it off and find a girl that will treat you right.
2006-06-10 14:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get help for her aggression or you'll have to end it. I have bi-polar disorder(which is mood swings to the 10th power) and I yell viscious things at my guy.I think I treat him bad-because he's the closest to me-so in my messed up head either I want to push him away or I know he's not going anywhere. It could've been bred into her, if she grew up in a household with violence. I take antidepressants and they help alot.It sounds like she has depression or some kind of issues
2006-06-10 14:39:20 · answer #11 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋