I meet a guy who does drugs but is well to give them up to be with me but my last boyfriend said the samething but he is in jail for the samething and he said he would stop doing them for me to what should i do?
2006-06-10 14:21:45 · 18 answers · asked by misty k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what u need to do is stop dating losers cause the first promise u the same thing where is he right now. what makes u think that wont happen to this one . what u need to do is dump him cause drug is a hard habit to take away .
2006-06-10 14:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by M$. N!CK@ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are hanging out with the wrong type of guy.
Pros:
None
Cons - Answer all of the questions below truthfully to yourself:
Do you like yourself enough to pick a nicer boyfriend?
Do you feel you are only worth this?
Did you know that you can pick up a nasty virus and sexually transmitted deseases this way? And do you want to play Russian roulette with your health?
Are you willing to throw your life away for someone so misguided?
Do you want to be persuaded to take drugs and end up in jail yourself?
What if he has a virus and you became pregnant?
When he runs out of drugs do you want to see him in mood swings hitting you?
It can only go downhill so get out now before you get hurt.
2006-06-10 21:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Dude is a loser but that's what a lot of girls like so think about it .Don't believe him unless he goes into a rehab 4 at least a year now that's not 2 much 2 assure ur future is it?
2006-06-10 21:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to a town that doesn't have drugs.
Oh wait, that isn't possible. Ok, then don't talk to people that do drugs. hmm that might be a little hard. OK OK don't hang out with or date people that do drugs.
He won't quit he will lie and tell you he did and then when he's with his drug friends he'll do them. And since you hang with him people will assume you do them too. Trust me on that one!
2006-06-10 21:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by MissCan'tBeWrong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am willing to be he's a straight up liar! You can't change someone, sorry to say. Plus, you really don't want to get involved with that lifestyle, even if it's just by association. Not a good plan.
Go find yourself a clean guy. You clearly deserve one. :)
2006-06-10 21:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he first gives up the drugs then i guess u can be with him or look for guys who are not into drugs
2006-06-10 21:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe him... guys always say they will change if there's any kind of chance you'll sleep with them!!!! Hold out for better - there ARE decent guys out there!
2006-06-10 21:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by jengirl9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard for someone just to quit......I think he just wants to date you, and then still do drugs behind your back
2006-06-10 21:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by larapookiebear18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person can not and will not stop doing them for you. He has to stop for himself otherwise it can not and will not happen. when he's clean give him a call.
2006-06-10 21:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by annie red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is stop dating losers, girlfriend. Do you not see the pattern?
2006-06-10 21:24:52 · answer #10 · answered by 4kidsmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋