Most of the signs are there that this guy likes me..........& I like him........one problem.....I'm affraid he might not like me because our families are so close.....my mom and his mom are high school best friends......His sister and I have a lot in common, also........ he is the complete opposite of me, and gets on my nerves......but at the same time....I get a warm fuzzy feeling..........He acts weird around me....different from what he has in the past.......What should i do??????
2006-06-10 14:01:20 · 20 answers · asked by larapookiebear18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres nothing better then a woman making the first move, if more women were more forward then guys wouldnt have to be overly forward, so take the dive girl, if its a bust who cares, u only live once
2006-06-10 14:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by matt j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your first problem here is that you are more consern about his mom and your mom being friends and that you both live so close . when you should be paying more attention on him , i am a hindu and my husband is a christian . before we were married we both lived in the same street & his house was next to mine . whenever he came over he acted the same way & i was maddley inlove with him for as long as i can remember & he never knew i existed or so i taught . he was also my moms best friend so he was always at our home for the simplest reasons until one day i asked him " why are you comming over here so often ?" and he said because he likes me and thats how simple it was we are now married for 8 yrs so my dear forget the friends and the family and do what your heart tells you to do . and remember what is for you will always be for you .
2006-06-10 14:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by TTYC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur families r close...n he visits often then there is no reason for him not 2 like u... go ahead make the 1st move... max what will happen is he may say no! or then he may say yes! either ways take ur chance as opportunity does not knock twice! remember opposites ATTRACT!
2006-06-10 14:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by geetee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it, but don't do anything big just ask him out, just because your families are close dosen't mean he isn't going to like you, your families already know and like each other so thats good. If you don't make a move somebody else will.
2006-06-10 14:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by Tcg_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please read this carefully,when a guy likes a girl and wants to be with her no matter what the situation is he will do whatever it takes to be with that girl! i am sure you guys have been alone and the opportunity has came for him to approach you about a relationship,and he hasnt? what does that tell you? dont ever make excuses for why a man does not ask you out cause their isnt one if he wants you he will come to you i would play it cool.and go out with your friends, another guy, get a hobby,dont wait around! good luck!!!!!
2006-06-10 14:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong w/ the woman making the first move. I feel a man can only fall in love w/ a woman if the woman is willing to love him, and that is by making the first move.
2006-06-10 14:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by josiahaaron 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust me
if you really like him go for him
make the first move
dont let your moms friendship come in the way of a possiblilty of love
2006-06-10 14:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right and you are talking or doing something and your faces are very close, look him in the eye and say, "we are close enough to kiss." then kiss him. quick.
2006-06-10 14:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by MissCan'tBeWrong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it's not. we don't have to wait around like wallflowers.
besides, it's my belief that some of the best guys are shy, so how else do you get those types?
2006-06-10 14:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by answer faerie, V.T., A. M. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong for either to make the first move!
2006-06-10 14:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋