I have alot of trust issues so I have been seceretly checking my bf's emails and looking at his cell phone for any evidence of him cheating and I have found some very questionalble things. Is it wrong of me to go behind his back and do this?
2006-06-10 13:59:07 · 9 answers · asked by nikkijgr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I work nights and last week there was a call on his cell for an hour and a half at 12 at night and I asked him and he sayed it was a girl from the net but they werent flirting.........yaeh right
2006-06-10 14:10:06 · update #1
If you can't trust him, you shouldn't be with him. If this is a personal issue and your boyfriend has never done anything that is un-trustworthy, you may want to work through your issues with a counselor. If the non trust stems from something he did, dump him.
2006-06-10 14:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by beth_eliza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend gave you reason to check up on him before looking at his email and phone then it is okay cause he gave you reason to know what is going on in your relationship. If you did this before he gave your reason and it was just a "can I trust him" issue then it was wrong. You should trust your man until he gives you reason not to and then you have ever right to know what is going on. Going through his mail might not be the right thing to do and if you ask to see who he has on his phone and he says no then he is hiding something. If you broke into his mail then this is wrong and if he gave you his password then he surely wouldn't have anything there for you to find.
2006-06-10 21:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that insecure about things between the two of you there is really no relationship. Wasting anymore time with him will not gain you anything. The best thing for you to do is drop him and look for someone you trust
2006-06-10 21:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by hardnose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOLY HELL! That used to make me soooo angry! I put passwords on my voice mail, text messages, and even on my phone book to stop that from happening. And changed the passwords constantly. But, in all honesty, uh... I was...well, cheating...
2006-06-10 21:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by Steve-o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me this is wrong. I trust my g/f & don't check her stuff and I expect to be treated the same!
2006-06-10 21:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope...i'll bet if you give him a reason to not trust you he would do the same thing...i've caught my hubby checking out dirty pics, but of course he denied it, but he left it on the computer in plain site... idiot....lol
you should trust your instinct...
2006-06-10 21:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by head of the tribe 5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it's not wrong. Keep checking up on him!
2006-06-10 21:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by furious but whatever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong at all. just make sure if you get caught he understands why you did it and that hes ok with it.
2006-06-10 21:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by razorbladekisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
search for info
2006-06-10 21:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋