Why do you beleive that he is going to leave his wife? Why would you want him to? He is going to do the same thing to you, Why would things be any different? Why do you want to be #2
2006-06-10 13:50:26 · 15 answers · asked by Lorraine W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have no idea!!!!! but i feel the same way its' wierd people tell me that's the way people communicate these days"! wierd.
2006-06-10 13:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by boricua chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They date married men because it is free sex and it is usually good. When you have to sneak it is just more exciting.
They have babies because they don't mean to, they forget birthcontrol or the condom breaks, etc. Or they think if they have a baby he'll leave his wife and be with them.
It is unrealistic for a woman to think a man will leave his wife for her. I can't answer this one. Crazy in love cause of the mad sex? Maybe.
They would want him to leave his wife so they can have mad sex with him all the time. What they don't realize is that when it becomes routine to him, then he'll probably have an affair with his ex-wife because now it is exciting with her and he never stopped loving her to begin with.
I don't know why they would think things would be different. Maybe because they are still under the spell of the crazy sex.
They don't want to be #2. I think usually they don't think of it like that. I think they think, dang this is some good stuff... and I don't have to listen to his crap later on tonight. I don't have to pick up his dirty laundry. I don't have to watch him sit with his hand in his pants watching tv.
There's the door.... thank you nice Mister!
2006-06-10 21:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by MissCan'tBeWrong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I 'am married and cheated on my wife with many.They all knew that I was married.I'am still with my wife. I have fathered 7 children that I know of. No I'm not proud. there were 7 children that missed out on the love of a father and a father that missed out on their love.I will not take all the blame. The girls knew what they were in for and they are as much to blam as I.There is a lot more to this story I can't put it all down here,I'll just have to wait for the movie with the rest of you.Hell of a long answer to a question that wasn't ask Sorry I got carried away
2006-06-10 21:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by I'm Jerry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first answer is because they're stupid.
But it's more complicated than that. They get entangled and can't seem to pull themselves out. Maybe they have sex unprotected because in the moment they aren't thinking. Or maybe because they think having a baby will make the married man be with them. It's all a mess usually. If you know anyone involved or considering getting involved with a married man, try to get them interested in something else. I had a friend who did that and it was a mess.
2006-06-10 20:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by Raebob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most guys just like to hit it and leave it but women can be real re tarted and just get with the guy for money or just use them for stupid reason!!! But a true gurl friend or Fe once will be true to there man and not hurt them
2006-06-10 20:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by Pink Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well those people don't follow by the bible.........& I think it is wrong for a spouse to do that. I don't believe in divorce......I think it is the worst thing kids can ever go through........ I've seen kids be in jail and have bad lives from the emotional pain..........When a person commits adultry.....it's the worst sin ....
2006-06-10 20:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by larapookiebear18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry biut i hate these types of qns like "why do... " generalising qns which in fact are as unique as the person/situation ...
for example 100 different women in the same situation would answer in 100 different ways...
so i dont think u can ever really generalise, the motivations are as unique as the persons and their feelings
2006-06-10 20:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by lazydazy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there Stupid,and want 2 belive it but it don't happen ,dudes just want 2 get into ur pants
2006-06-10 21:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have low self esteem and no respect 4 themselves. I'm not mad @ them because these women really need help but most never recieve it.ITS A SHAME!
2006-06-10 21:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by MY GOODIES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Single woman do that because they dont have any other time on their hands. They want to ruin the life of the other woman, so they dont have to be miserable. Its rediculous, and they dont have any respect for anyone.
2006-06-10 20:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people get off on being able to take what belongs to someone else. It's an ego boost for them.
2006-06-10 20:54:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋