why don't people want to date big guys and girls?

Question

well everyone needs love isn't there someone for everyone

Answer 1

fear of being crushed during sex

Answer 2

My bfr is a big guy and I love him to death.
To be honest, I always went for the well shaped guys, and thats all I dated. Then 2 years ago i met the guy im with now. At first when we started talking, I only liked him as a friend, but then I found something in him I have never found in anyone else, true love! And now we are getting married...

"If ya judge a book by its cover, you could end up letting the best story go by ya!" :)

Answer 3

First it's because most human don't find big people that attractive. Men eyes are attract to more geometery shape (curvy) while women eyes are attract to more squarish shape.

So by natural, their eyes aren't attract to a overweight person. To attract some attention and get someone to come up to talk with you, you will need something to catch their attention. So being overweight decrease chance of having someone come to you.

Plus I really bust my *** to get in the shape that I'm in so I feel like I expect to get something worthy for all har work I do. You wouldn't trade in your well tuned porsche for a pinto that is on verge of break down would you?

Also I am extremely atheletic and energizitic so if girls cant keep up with it then I'm rarely interest in the girl even if she is skinny.

Answer 4

I am a big girl never had a problem getting a date, I have dated big guys too? I don;t have a problem with it.

The ones that judge people on how they are are self absorbed looks dont matter to someone who really cares they are taken by what is on the inside.

Answer 5

Its a "mass" image that everyone is attracted to. A "mass" idea of perfect that everyone associates with. Why do you think we have anorexia and bolimia as such a common thing in society? People are trying to, while killing themselves, attain this idea of perfect for what everyone else, who doesn't matter, wants. Yes, there is someone out there for everyone, although that is not to say that people should be able to eat themselves out of house and home and expect to be viewed as attractive. A little exercise never hurt anyone... but to so simply answer your question, yes they are out there... just wait, and even when you think you've found them, wait, because if they are for you, they will fight for you and prove themselves. Hope this serves you well.....

Monalisa

Answer 6

Who knows? Doesn't everyone know that big people keep little people cool in the summertime with their shade and warm in the winter with their extra weight? LOL Don't get offended, people. My "larger than life" BF told me to type that. Size should be a secondary issue if you truly love a person.

Answer 7

that makes a good point no one ever dates the big guys or the girls or the ugly ones whats up with that

Answer 8

because most people look on the outside instead of the inside. they reside more on looks, and how much money they have instead of how loyal and how loving they are. we (everyone) needs to not judge everyone by their cover (unless their a proven rapist or criminal that hasn't changed yet) but by their actions and their heart.

Answer 9

I know how ya feel. I'm not super big. But come on I'm the nicest guy around yet no girl wants to spend any time with me.........

Answer 10

Not everyone feels that way, but society says that large people are unattractive, so that makes them not want to... which is kind of stupid.

Answer 11

Would u like to date a 450 lb. dude?