my daddy loves me (my real dad)
but my mother says to love my other daddy(fake dad)
HELP ME!!!
2006-06-10 13:10:02 · 16 answers · asked by Nellie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
there's no choice, and shame on your mother for wanting you to choose. it's your right to love both dads, this should never be a situation of pick the best dad!!
2006-06-10 13:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by Mario B 2 · 11⤊ 3⤋
Don't choose baby, really. My daughter has 2 daddies, and I am proud that she loves both of them with all her heart! So sorry that you're in this situation. Love them both the way you want to, no one can make you love or not love someone! If you can become closer to your stepdad, I'd do that. But don't feel that you are doing something wrong by your real dad, He'll love you anyway I bet!
2006-06-10 13:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be put into this position or be forced to make a decision tell each father that you love them very much and they need to put their diffrences aside so you can have a loving relationship with them both, Tell them if they behave this way around you they are going to have to be excluded from you life on special occasions. If they have a problem with each other they just will have to learn to mkae you happy and have their beef with each other when you are not around. dont stand for their little games if they hate each other that is their problem, you will probley fine this whole issue between them is fulled by either jelousy or the way one has treated your mum.
Good luck
2006-06-10 13:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep loving both. Tell them you love both of them and shouldent have to pick from the two and if one of them dont like it tell them there gonna have to live with it and grow up. Of course your gonna love your real dad more but dont stop loving the step dad
2006-06-10 13:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by tanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love both of them no matter what all of them tell you. Just because they don't like each other doesn't mean that you have to take sides. They both probably love you too, but one isn't going to stop loving you because you love the other.
2006-06-10 13:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love both of them. Just because they don't like eachother doesn't mean that you have to pick one and not like the other. Try to talk to both of them and explain you love them both and you don't want their problems to affect your relationship with either one of them.
2006-06-10 13:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose neither, tell them both how their fighting is hurting you and that you will stop talking to them both if they dont start getting along. Their both are your dads, you shouldnt have to choose.
2006-06-10 13:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by thatcutesexygyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to stop loving either one. The dad's need to resolve whatever issues they have.Just tell them if they love you they shouldn't expect you to choose between them.
2006-06-10 14:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love them both! They care about you and you should be proud and happy that at least 2 people care about you!
2006-06-10 13:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by MnGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is room in your heart to love them both. Trust me. The space in your heart knows no limits.
2006-06-10 13:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by firedup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose your real dad
2006-06-10 13:13:20 · answer #11 · answered by WyattEarp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋