I've been talking to this guy and he says that he loves me. He wants me to come visit him. Should I stop talking to him. He said that he is madly in love with me.
2006-06-10 12:59:26 · 31 answers · asked by bfm 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been talking to him for about 3 weeks. I'm 32 and I think he said he was 27. He lives in another country. I thought this was strange.
2006-06-10 13:16:51 · update #1
GIRLLLLL
HAVE YOU BEEN WATCHING PRIMETIME? Heck no!
You have no idea who you are really talking to...He could be a pedophile...mass murder...someone who really would want to get their hands on an innocent person....DON'T BY ANY MEANS
go and visit or allow a person to visit you if you have been corresponding through the net! For all you know he has been
filling your head with lies about him...who he really is. It could be the monster in wait of his prey...stalking...biding his time for the snare. Rush to your elders and explain....let them decide.
Never do anything alone...Go in a Group....If you must.
There are too many vultures out there waiting for a meal.
Dear Lord...help this child make the right choice...lead the past to promise...In Jesus Name. I Ask...Thank you Lord.
Just a prayer for you....listen to your instincts. Gods with you.
2006-06-10 13:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow-- what a bunch of cynics here on Yahoo!
How long have you been talking to this person? Do you feel like he's a decent guy? How do you feel about him?
If you are curious about a relationship with him, suggest that you meet in a public place-- tell him that you'll bring a friend for the first half of the date. Make sure you have a cell phone with you and don't go anywhere alone with him, until you know he's trustworthy. Take care of yourself, but do be open to meeting someone new, especially if you have feelings for him!
Good luck.
2006-06-10 20:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by thinkofasong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been talking to him? If you've been talking to him for years then you might consider meeting up with him - if it's been 3 weeks and he says he's madly in love with you, you might wanna change your screen name.
If he wants to meet you so bad why don't you meet him half way or have him come to see you, but NOT stay with you, and you certainly shouldn't stay with him.
You also didn't mention your age - if you are under 18 you shouldn't even be thinking of going to meet a guy you met off the internet.
2006-06-10 20:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you need to really think about this. There is no way you should go meet this guy at his house. If you want to meet him take a friend with you and meet in a public place. I met a guy online before and I took a friend along with me. I met him at a gas station. He became a good friend to me, but I lost contact with him. Just be smart about this. Some people are weirdo's on the net. Protect yourself and let him know what you will do and not do. I hope you take this into consideration.
2006-06-10 20:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by favoritegyrl21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters i thinks it a bit strange that he says he is madly in love without meeting you but it can happen i guess. I f you feel you must meet him in person i suggest organizing to meet in a public place (mall,cafe etc) make sure someone knows where you are and take a friend with you. But most of all remember if it doesn't feel right leave.
Never go to a strangers house that is about as dangerous as it can get.
I wish you luck and be safe.
2006-06-10 20:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U didnt mention your age or his age. No one can really love someone without actually meeting the person. If he lives in the same place as u do, nothing wrong in meeting him over lunch or dinner. But if it is a far away place, then I would suggest not to go.
Dont ever believe someone who says "he/she is MADLY in LOVE with you". A person can never love u so much by just chatting with you over internet. But be careful, there are predators everywhere on internet.
2006-06-10 20:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by Avtaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in internet love. But I won't say that it isn't possible for some people. I also don't think that EVERY person on the internet is a stalker or pedophile. But I honestly believe that he can't love you. If you really want to meet him, do it somewhere you're familiar with and where there are lots of people. A coffee shop or mall. But I wouldn't say he actually loves you, I think he just loves what you tell him. It's totally up to you. Good luck.
2006-06-10 20:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by Yukina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remembering that love is a complex emotion developed over time, this admission may be designed to play upon your emotions. Be wary of meeting people, especially on their "home turf." Insist on neutral ground and in a public place. Lunch is usually better because you can find an excuse to leave if he is a dud. Good luck! Be careful!
2006-06-10 20:02:02 · answer #8 · answered by Lost M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long u have been talking to this person. i would say a year or more if u guys are still chat ting on-line or on the phone then go for it. it seems really weird that he is telling u that he loves u and guys have never met. i would like to hear more of what;'s really going on with u guys
2006-06-10 20:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by SEXXYDARKCHOCO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dint know, I wouldn't... For all you know he can some physco...as for him be madly on love with you, I think he is just saying that so you can meet him. If you do choose to see him, go in a public place, let others know where your going to be, and bring something to protect yourself just in case you he tries to get physical.
2006-06-10 20:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋