Ok....... So I met this guy online about 3 months ago. We have gone out twice and everything went well. We talk on the phone almost everyday... He either calls or I call...... I like him but I am not sure if he likes me back. I sort of mentioned to him that I was curious about him and that I really wanted to get to know him more. I did this when we were talking on the messenger..... all he typed back was that he was turning red........ but thats about it. I really like him but i want to know if he feels the same way. ..... Am I going to fast, being that we have only seen each other twice? We seriously talk everyday......... I think thats why I feel this way towards him.........What should I do?
2006-06-10 12:40:32 · 10 answers · asked by yadironga 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have invited him out......... and we did go out........ movie and dinner......
2006-06-10 12:44:54 · update #1
Oh and by the way....... we talk on the phone not on the computer........... I have tried not answering him right away or things like that........ but he doesnt say anything. He has mentioned that it takes alot for him to get attached to a girl because he has been hurt so many times. Could he be just saying that or what?
2006-06-10 12:46:58 · update #2
back off from the computer!
if he said he was turning red, could be a good sign. stop talking everyday and then see how you feel. don't say anymore about wanting to get to know him better. don't try to force anything. if he wants to get to know you better he will let you know!
2006-06-10 12:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get him checked out...really...I am serious here. There are ways on the net where you can find ou if he has any record. What you did as a dangerious thing...going to meet someone you only talk to for 3 months. He could be a serial killer...be careful!
Sometimes speaking to someone on the net or on the phone you have your little 'dream imagine' of how they look. Well the trueth is maybe when he saw youi in person...you were not the dream imagine that he has in his head....or it could be that he is persuing someone else online. Sorry...Good Luck to you...
Zen
2006-06-10 19:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Zenqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my boyfriend 2 and a hlaf years ago online and it took 2 years before we actually starting dating. Now its been 7 months that we've been a couple and I have never been happier. Except for this weekend but thats a different story. Take it slow and really get to know eachother
2006-06-10 19:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by rockerchick0727 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His level of experience with the opposite sex may not be as advanced as yours. and that may be what you like about him. I think people have expectations of their signals from other people, what happened in the last realtionship isn't happening now so it must mean this. just because you like them doesn't mean they will react the same as your last thing did. what you should do is be patient and let him reveall his feelings when he is ready to. you want to hurry up and get this thing started so you can feel comfortable that he is hooked. which ends the chase. enjoy the chase. when he is finally whooped, you will be looking for excitement again.
2006-06-10 19:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down and take your time. See where things go. You need to get to know him better. Good luck
2006-06-10 19:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by fungirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probably flattered that you liked him. Take him to a dinner or movie and just hang out- see where things go!
2006-06-10 19:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are moving too fast. get to know eachother first...
and remember that online you don't notice the annoying habbits people got. can you live with them?
2006-06-10 19:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by Shaqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him how u feel about him and how you like him a whole lot and maybe he likes you the same way you like him
2006-06-10 19:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by MissShorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him in person how he feels about you then honey you need to know before you take this relationship any further
2006-06-10 19:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its call telephone love you are moving to fast
2006-06-10 19:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋