he think i want him to my self but all i want is him back and to be happy but he said he is to young to be tied down but i'm not trying to hold him down from anyting we been going together for 4 years but we are going there ups and down times but i'm carzy in love with him we have 2 kids together and it is hard i do'nt want to be with noone but him.he want me to changebut have change but he can't see that and i try so hard to let him see that. and he think that i'm still mad because he got another baby mother but i'm over that now and i just want it to work out.
2006-06-10 11:57:53 · 5 answers · asked by Dante K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ill tell it to you like this love is like a bird. you nuture it and help it grow and get its wings and sometimes you have to let it go and if ur little bird comes back it was meant to be. and if he comes back and isnt happy do u want him to feel like a caged bird. just let him go honey and if he comes back then there ya go if not move on.... i know it will be hard cuz i just did the same thing and it will hurt for a while but you will eventually be ok
2006-06-10 12:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by hazeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that doesn't seem very fair of him. He must have thought he was ready and old enough for 2 kids with you. It's a bit late if he doesn't want to be tied down, the kids will always be there now. There must have been something very wrong for this to happen. Just keep in touch for the kids' sake and don't try to push anything. To be quite honest, I don't think you should get back with him. He was happy with you for 4 years and then sudden;y wants you to change. That's not good.
2006-06-10 12:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by Evil J.Twin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whew, the drama here, guys don't like drama but they are sure good at creating it, (myself included). the baby momma is a good reason to open your eyes and quit trying to get your way. you are the only one of you 2 that is trying to work toward something here, he isn't, you can't do it by yourself. the baby should be a big clue that things aren't the same and never will be again. you are living what could have been, he is living is this a big enuf clue. the ups and downs have been spread around sounds like. you are holding on to your child hood dream of the way you thought you wanted your life to be. I think it's safe to say, it isn't going to happen. let that dream go. it isn't even close to what you wanted. that's why it is important to find someone that has the same dream as you before you start making babies. once the babies are here, the dreams are gone if it wasn't his dream also. women do that all the time, they think if the guy isn't ready for a commitment, they will have a baby and force him to surrender, usually it just forces him to leave you and your dream behind. good luck........
2006-06-10 12:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you deserve better than him. You are worth more than to accept what he is dishing out. Ask yourself if you want to spend the rest of your life accepting whatever he wants to do. There is a man out there for you that will marry you and be faithful. It is really worth it. Good luck.
2006-06-10 12:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by ginaforu5448 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the question. You need to read what you wrote- it doesn't make sense.
2006-06-10 12:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋