i don't know what to do i like him alot HELP ME
2006-06-10 11:28:35 · 29 answers · asked by dmbbrown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
13 is to young to have sex. If your scared your not ready. Besides you want your first time to be with someone you love not someone you like alot.
2006-06-10 11:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by hockey_kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answer this question the same way every time, give or take. If think you are old enough to be having sex, you need to consider if you are old enough to be having babies. It can happen. It does happen. A lot of women I know lost their virginity around 13. A lot of them wish they had waited, some don't care.
Again, I'm not trying to be prudish or moral, but are you ready to have a child? Is your bf? Can you deal with the whole abortion/adoption issue? How bad do you want to mess up your life?
If you are having doubts, go blame your parents. Blame me. Tell him your parents would kill you and your boyfriend if you have sex before you're 18. Or 16. 15 even. 13 is too young. My opinion.
2006-06-10 11:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by trixwagen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being scared is NOT a sign of being ready. When you are ready you will not need to ask someone what you should do. You are only 13, please wait. If he can't wait until you are ready, then he isn't the right guy, and doesn't truly care enough about you, in which cacse you shouldn't be having sex with him anyway! Wait till you are 18.
2006-06-10 11:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by furnace4bro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you should be. this 14 yr old has no job... house... car... or money of his own. what r you thinking. stay young as long as you can. besides he is probably lying about not being a virgin. in any case.. neither one of you r ready. do you want a disease.. or baby or have to quit school. how bout real love.. and dont say you r in love because you arent. hold off a little longer,... and be prepared for him to move on when you say no... that means he really was the wrong one.14 yr old boys usually have sex.. tell everyone you did it.. and then move on... dont be dumb.
2006-06-10 11:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not about u like him or not,u are so young for that so don't start that now,and if u scared from that ,that meaning that something wrong,i perfer u do that with ur husband,when u be sure that he will be for u and not playing, just wanted to spend nice time only and go. if he loves u ,he will stay with u and wait.if he care alot about sex now,then he care of sex not u,so think more before fall.
2006-06-10 11:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Nabiloo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may like him a lot, but having sex with him to make him like you will not work. that's how gurls your age end up pregnant and I will guarantee you he will not like you as a teen mother. you will become an enemy really quick. 14 year old boys aren't worried about protection either. they are on top of the world. if you are scared , that's your instincts telling you not to do it. your friends may say, yeah go ahead, if you don't he will get another g/f . don't even worry about that, that is coersion and it should not compel you to do what you don't think is right. misery desires company and they want you to feel as bad as they do. 13 yr old minds are not ready for sex. that's what parents are for, tell them, I had a g/f when I was 16 and she told her mother everything. even my advances, when her mother spoke to me about it, I felt ashamed , but I admired her more and I respected her wishes more. her mother didn't ban me from seeing her, she just explained that she wasn't a toy there for my amusement. try it.
2006-06-10 11:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 13, you should wait until you are of age. you could be making a big mistake if you jump into bed with this boy. If he loves you, he will back off and wait until you are ready. if he does not want to wait then find a boy that likes you for you not for sex. you have your entire life ahead of you, don't mess it up by having sex with a boy and falling in love with this boy and when he gets bored he leaves you for another virgin. if he has already had sex with 1 or more girls who says you will be his last. WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE READY!!!
2006-06-10 11:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by misshstn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young to even be thinking about sex. You have your whole life ahead of you. Alot of boys only want what they can't have. You don't know what he will do if you give in. You don't have to give it up just to keep hi. If he says that he will break up with you if you don't, then get rid of him and find someone who will respect. you. Good luck.
2006-06-10 11:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, NO, and NO!!!!!!
You are both just kids, you are not ready for all the responsibilities of sex. Never, ever do something because you want a guy to like you. You are worth waiting for!
2006-06-10 11:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's just mean. I mean, c'mon, he probably put in so much work, like "why not?" and "c'mon its not so bad". After that passionate night you guys had watching the Fantastic Four movie, he deserves something right? Seriously, if you're scared, tell him, and if he tries to weasel his way in with some lines, tell him it's gonna take more lines than that.
2006-06-10 11:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by danielspectrum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋