Um...you see, me and my boyfriend(17), he has been really cold with me for the last 2 month... he won't answer my call, I told him that my birthday is coming up(next week) and he just said: ok. and then he hang up the phone....so some weeks before I went to his house, but his mom told me that he hadn't been home for 3 days. so I waited 6 hours for him till 1:am and then he was back looking exhausted. I was freezing to death, and then he bent down and hugged me, he told me : I love you honey, don't ever get away from me. I love you. I thought that he was back to normal but suddenly he pushed me away and he is back to being cold and slammed the door on me. What's going on?
2006-06-10 11:17:30 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, and now, I'm being stalked by his friends like 24/7, and one of them was nice enough to tell me that he was exhausted because he was working at Disney Land to earn the money he needs. They told me that he did it for me, he had never stopped loving me, and that he was being cold to me because he wanted to throw me a birthday party, he wanted the whole restaurant to ourselves, and that he was second-handed stalking me because he felt that I was breaking away....should I believe it?
2006-06-10 11:34:31 · update #1
wow yu need to sit down and seriously talk to him bout it! or dump him
2006-06-10 11:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by soccersweetie982005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie I hate to say it but in his eyes the two of you are not boyfriend and girlfriends. When he stopped calling you and answering your calls that was his chicken **** way of telling you things are over. When he came home and saw you he probably didnt know what to do which is why he was nice and then pushed you away. He has given you every sign he doesnt want you and its time you heeded his feelings. Dont call him or go to his house. If he wants you he will call you. BTW Why oh why would you wait for him for 6 hours??????
2006-06-10 11:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by hockey_kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isn't your b/f anymore, he is someone elses b/f. what he did was to make himself feel better not you. guilty conscience and all. he was exhausted because he had been getting busy for 3 days, I am sure I will get nasty e-mails for being so frank with my opinion, but it's time to open your eyes, the sooner you get past this guy, the sooner you will feel better. if he keeps stringing you along , you will hurt for months or years, if you can see what is going on and drop him like a terd, you can start to gain your self esteem back and quit chasing him. just realize he isn't "the one" and the one will come along when you shake this user. good luck.
2006-06-10 11:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, don't waste your time on him. I think the reason he said "I love you honey, don't ever get away from me.", was because he wanted you to stay so that he could hurt your feelings all over again. The best thing to do is to break up with him.
2006-06-10 11:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by MallBabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me he is really screwed...up...it's not easy to figure out the problem with his actions and the things he says,Kinda like Dr.Jekyll & Mr.Hyde.I went out with one of those before,wow I was on pins and needles with him.I had to get away for my own sanity.Good Luck to you.Remember you can find someone who is mentally more healthy.If he could or would tell you what's going on it would help but on the other hand he's unpredictable.
2006-06-10 11:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 17 year old whos mother doesn't know of his whereabouts and he hasn't been home in three days.
It sounds like he's the one that's screwed.
- What kinds of drugs is he experimenting with?
2006-06-10 11:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he doesn't care much about you. where was he till 1 in the morn and what about those 3 days. i think your man has another babe on the side and doesn't want to tell you. what he is telling you, is he doesn't need you. the guys a jerk. you can do better than him.
2006-06-10 11:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the situation is not looking good... I would first ask myself if this is how I want to be treated... (I hope that the answer is no.) and if you decide that it isn't then you need to let him go... Remember that you can't change him... you didn't cause him to change into the way he is now... only he can change him.
2006-06-10 11:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by Big John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget Him- There Are Other Fish In The Sea.
2006-06-10 11:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would wait and see what happens. IF your birthday was 6 months ago..then I would probually say....its a lie. If not. Just wait and see.
2006-06-19 04:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by firemansgirl001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is truly wrong how he is disrespecting you. You need to talk to him and see what's going on. I would ask him if he wants something from this relationship or should you guys depart. I wouldn't put up with his foul attitude.
2006-06-10 11:24:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋