ok so last week a friend from america was going to liverpool on hols. we'd been txting over d last while about how much we like each other & how we can't wait to kiss wen we meet. so on tuesday i travelled on my own to liverpool ( from ireland) to meet her & her friends. i went to kiss her wen we met & was greeted with a friendly kiss on the lips, i felt absolutely no passion on her part. the same happened over d next few day's. i confronted her and asked if she just wanted friendship or i wasn't what she was expecting and she said she was sorry and did really like me but didn't know why she reacted like this.( she was beaten by an old boyfriend). she came down with the flu on my last day and couldn't go d airport to say goodbye. she is trying to come to ireland for a few day's but is having trouble with her credit card & bank card so she might not make it.i do like the girl but is she crazy or what. am usually very good at understanding a girl but she's a tough one.help.
2006-06-10 10:49:15 · 2 answers · asked by podge_celt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if she was beaten up by her old boyfriend she is probably really traumatised by it and is maybe not yet ready for another relationship. Just be friends and get her trust first. Once she sees that you are a good bloke (i'm presuming you are) then maybe she will be ready for a relationship then. If she is having problems suggest to see her and put no pressure on her and start the friendship from there
2006-06-10 11:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sound's to me like a total *****, beaten by an old bf what an excuse what has that got to do with u and her, or maybe she is just shy in front of her friends. i was u i would forget about her and move on!
2006-06-11 03:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋