my sister is older than me by 3 years she was living whith my dad but he throw her out now shes back at home whith me and my mum but the thing is she always starts on me over stuff and she always makes me cry i dont cry in front of her cus i dont whant her to think she has power over me but iv hade anuf what shud i do
2006-06-10 10:26:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The first thing you should do is consider that she is feeling out of place with you and your mom. She's trying usurp your place with your mom, instead of making her own.
Do your best to ignore her digs. Talk to your mom. Maybe all she needs is your mom to assure her that she loves both of you.
2006-06-10 10:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Lorrie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to look on her positive ways. Give her credit for what good things she does. Maybe she's just wanting attention. To be seen. If you focus on the good things and overlook the bad things - she cant help but being nice in the end. Good luck!
2006-06-10 17:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 older sister and well theirs alot that goes on between all of use we all go to our mom and sometimes it helps and sometimes it doesnt. But the best thing to do is go staight to your sister and talk with her, maybe theirs something thats bothering her and shes just taking it out on you.
2006-06-10 17:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by Ray Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is talk to your mother and explain to her what's going on. Then talk to your sister and asked her seriousily why she's bothering you so much. Explain to her that it hurts your feelings and ask if she's angry at you for anything you've done. Don't let her see your tears because you are right; she'll see those tears and know she's getting to you. Good luck!
2006-06-10 18:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Lily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let her know that her behavior is upsetting to you. Ask her if she'd like to talk about what's really bothering her, because it definitely is not all the little things that she's picking fights with you over. If she doesn't want to talk, just let her know that you love her and you're there for her whenever she needs you.
2006-06-10 17:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by GreekChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your sister has problems! I'm sorry you're having to deal with her! She needs to move out and find her own place or something. Stand up to her, as hard as that may be, you need to show her you're not going to allow her to treat you that way anymore. You don't deserve to be treated this way by anyone, ESPECIALLY your freakin' sister! Put her in her place honey! You really need to! Good luck with this!
2006-06-10 17:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Brooke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your mom involved or get out of the house and go live with your dad.
2006-06-10 17:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by profghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away let her fight with herself and maybe she letup sooner or latter try to talk to her and to find out what's really bothering her inside i wish you the best I've been there too!!
2006-06-10 17:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by ski0770 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No thanks....Oh drat there is more.
Tell her that if you wanted and crap from her you'd squeeze her head.
Another good one for a person like that is ,"Did I say you can speak?"
2006-06-10 17:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. or tell your mom and she will do something or just fight back don't let her think that she is the boss!
2006-06-10 17:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by jumping shrimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋