i have been going out with this boy for about a year. and i love him to death. but, he lied to me about smoking, and about drinking, and he broke up with me for a day 3 times. what should i do? help. every single one of my friends that know him, all say really mean things about him. and i never want or wanted to believe them at all.. someone tell me what you would do...please!
2006-06-10 10:19:08 · 9 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everyone says to dump him. its easier said, than done. i was going to break up with him one night, and i was entirely over him. but, when i heard his voice, everything that i was going to do, i couldnt do any of it!
2006-06-10 10:27:46 · update #1
how u love him to death as u don know much about him? Love take two. If he does, he will respect and follow you. Give him chance to change.
In case he reject, y couldn't find another right guy? U have rights to live happily with those who love u.
2006-06-11 15:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by Luck charge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, it is really tough to break off with someone you have shared so many intimate and happy times with. However, it seems like you can't trust him and no one should deal with that aspect of a relationship. Dump him and you will find a better man who can make your life more worthwhile.
2006-06-10 10:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sunnydays 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boy is bad news, it's time you listened to your friends.They are the ones that care for you. You are too close to the situation to see clearly.
You already know what you must do, and are looking for confirmation, so just do it, dump him and get someone decent.
Do it today.
2006-06-10 10:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to ask yourself if you want to be with someone that drinks and smokes. Then you have to be strong and do whatever you are going to do.
2006-06-10 10:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by Dance Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said 3times he broke.who started again?if you +his lies,you must ignore him. but if he came after his broke up may be u could keep him
2006-06-10 10:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by amin k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he make you happy? Is this someone you can rely on? Do you trust him? Do you feel safe with him?
2006-06-10 10:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and run . You are looking for better and he will not change
2006-06-10 10:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats strange you would believe us instead of your friends go figure
2006-06-10 10:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep him!!
2006-06-10 10:25:08 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♫i luv♥♫juicy fruit♥♫gum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋